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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why did he last so long during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my friend have a guy friend that have sexual inner course with for a long time (8 hours) and she is tired of him but scare to let him no. She don't no what to do. She think that he have a problem about how long he last. she ask him is he taking any ...

Do you think she would change after telling me this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm the 15 years old guy with the immature girlfriend. Ok well, I'm sorry if this is too fast but I had to write this because I'm running out of time. She sent me an email and tomorrow I don't know if I shoul talk to her or ignore her. Here is ...

We've had intimate moments, although not full sex, we've spent weekends together - and suddenly he doesn't want me to get too attached!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - ok, so i've been dating "mike" for about 4 months now. We can only see each other on weekends because of our work schedules and bc we live 40 mins away from each other. We only talk a couple times a week and thru text (he never calls) just to see ...

My girlfriend believes marriages aren't happy. How do I change her opinion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I'm currently with a woman who is in love with me, or so I believe, and yet is afraid to have children or get married. We've only been seeing eachother for 5 months, so I'm hoping she'll change in a year or so...depending on how things go. If ...

He's perfect but I think he's not right for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Ok im 16. A met a guy through a friend and he really liked me, i was unsure about whether i did like him but i met up with him anyway. True he's not great looking but im not shallow its not all about looks. Though little things annoy me about him ...

I feel as if I had to compete with the computer for her attantion...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - why does my fiance always go online and ignore me and then get upset with me when i say something to her about being online all the time ??? We both had yearbook and tagged and myspace accounts and always argued over them so i erased all mine but ...

My husband is ready to leave but I don't know how to handle this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I need help! I have a husband who is ready to leave because he is just not happy! He can't tell you why but will tell you that it's our relationship! His moods change with me and everyone else including his children! I believe he is depress and ...

Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...

My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...

How can I tell him that I feel he is smothering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I d...

Can it ever work with a guy who's best friend with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - The guy Im seeing still meets up with his ex girlfriend - they are really good friends. I think I mind a little bit deep deep down but purely based on my own insecurities and because I like him. Can smoeone who has been in this situation tell me ...

Will she come back or is this her way to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I have been with my wife for 17 years. We're compatible in lots of ways but sexually. The time we've been together I have found sex elsewhere. ( a man has needs) My lastest affair she has found about and is now leaving and has since bought a ...

I'm incredibly afraid of my abusive husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem i'm 22 years old and have been married for over 2 year. I have recently become awary of my husband abusive nature. We fight alot and i dont know what to do i have told my family and they are trying to help but it seem to be getting ...

I think I'm falling for a much younger girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Hello all. I have a very confusing situation that I need help with. I am currently married but we have been living together but separated for years. We stay together because of our kids and the lifestyle for them; but neither of us are happy. We ...

Why doesn't he talk to me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - why dosent he talk to me? ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Yesterday i broke up with my first boyfriend because he didnt like my friends and i liked another boy. He asked me out on msn so i thought i'd break up with him on msn so when i started saying how im breaking up with him he started ...

I'm afraid that if I tell him the whole truth about my past that he will not want me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a special guy in my life that i have dated for a year now and i am so in love as he is with me...at least for now anyway. i have told him all about my past, guys i have kissed and slept with (all of whom i have dated) and other miscellaneous ...

What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m ...

I'm newlywed and thinking to confront my husband about an inappropriate mail sent to his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I am a newlywed. My husband had left his personal email account open last night, and i read a recent email from an ex girlfriend og his from years ago who he never slept with. He said in the email that he had really wanted to sleep with her, ...

My husband and I get into nasty arguments, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Need some help.... recently my Husband and i have been arguing alot, almost on a weekly basis. He says very nasty hurtful things and the tone in which he says these things is as if he really hates me. I've tried talking to him about it but he tells ...

Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...

Is it possible for my husband to fall in love with me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - We've been married for 4 years. He has left because he says I have changed. He has moved into our other house. He says I am not the same fun, confident woman I was when we got married. I don't know what happened. I hadn't seen it until now. I can't ...

My boyfriend's personality has changed and I find myself going off him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Right this might be long so il apologize now! Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 8 months, we never had a honey-mood period, i dont no why we just didnt. when we got togther we argued all of the time but something stopped me endin...

Why am I never invited to anything after all I support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - I have a male friend with whom I am close. As part of my work, I see him now and again (he is a sommelier) and I go to his house sometimes and make dinner. I stay over and I share his bed (no sex) and he kisses me goodbye on the lips. I am ...

His sneakiness really damaged my trust in him. Once I ended up with bruises, and I hurt him too. What can I do to stop the fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has betrayed me numerous times in the past by lying to me about who he was with and hiding things about other women. He never did anything with them I don't think but the sneakiness really damaged my trust in him. I wonder if he will ...

Two guys in my life, the first is withdrawn, the second admitted to have been acting strange because he is jealous of the first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - i have been with a guy for a months and few days. Our relationship is so cold and withdrawn. Initially I felt like he was not really into me. I am on another relationship. When we started, I was looking for someone who in future i can settle with ...

I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alon...

Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

Why does she do this? Why after being so nice to her does she treat me like garbage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - She uses her friend to talk to me. Hi, you may have heard of me in previous posts. The 15 years old boy with the not so nice girlfriend. First of all, I would like to thank the people who have supported me and answered my previous questions, ...

I can't stand my highly immature boyfriend! Please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. He is 19 but acts like a 15 year old;he is childish,immature and downright annoying.I am 17 but have been through so much in life that I have taught myself to be logical,rational and unbiased. ...

She gets upset everytime we have sex. I've offered to stop but we start all over again. Why is she doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - I have been having an affair for the last 2 years now with a married woman. We love each other but know what we are doing is wrong. We have tried to cool things down more than once but our feelings for each other are too strong. Anyway when we are ...

Does it mean I might be gay because I find this guy fascinating and good looking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

2 September 2008 (M) - So I'm a teenage boy in high school and I think I'm gay. How can you tell the difference between lust and love? I'm focused on this guy, which is sorta weird, b/c it's not like I'm stalking him or anything, but I just find him fascinating. He's a ...

He's been saying he's "too tired" but I catch him watch him porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been married since may this year we have been together for a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship we had sex atleast once a week but for the past year he always says he is tired but I catch him watching...

How can I stop my boyfriend from being so controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - so i have this boyfriend who i think is just amazing in everyway, int he beginning of our relationship i was kinda torn between him and my fiance who i was going to marry. i was completely honest with him about the whole thing and told him that i ...

I don't understand why he would want her email but swear he hates her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - My live in boyfriend of 4 years he has a daughter that just turned 7 and between his family and friend they have all asked me if he is still in love with her he says he is not and wishes her out of his life forever and that he does not have the ...

I don't want to take a break, but we have few solutions to keep our relationship intact!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Well i recently wrote a question about how my boyfriend's family and friends don't want us to date. well we talked last night and we made two choices date behind there parents back and let his friends go with not wanting us dating. we would...

How do I set boundaries so he doesn't take advantage of my help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - Please help!!! I met this man, he is 10 yrs younger than me, im 36. He was wonderful, he lived an hour away and we were together every weekend. His ex died and he got FULL CUSTODY of his 3 and 4 year old kids which he just began to see when i met ...

Why does he one day tell me he likes me and the next day he ignores me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5930 days ago

2 September 2008 (F) - hello, i know this is gonna take some time as there is quite a lot to the story, but anyway moving on. I met a boy who lives a couple of doors away from me, we became friends at the start i did really have a big crush on him and i admit it i did...