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writes:So I'm a teenage boy in high school and I think I'm gay. How can you tell the difference between lust and love? I'm focused on this guy, which is sorta weird, b/c it's not like I'm stalking him or anything, but I just find him fascinating. He's a really cool guy but I rarely talk to him. I see him through the day, and he knows I am, but we just don't talk to each other much. I'd like to get to know him more, but I'm wondering if that means I just want to make friends or what? I'm pretty sure he just thinks I'm just another person to talk to. Plus, I think he looks good along w/ him being interesting to talk to. Any advice? Also, I'm just quiet and didn't really have any guy friends growing up. Most, if not all of my friends are girls...they don't think I'm gay, or I don't think so..I'm just pretty quiet and don't talk much to other guys...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008): It is not love. Just a higschool crush. You should try to make more freinds. you do sound lonely.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 sounds like you need friends that you enjoy the company of-i'm gay and i would say you are more friend lonely than anthing else
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reader, Big-b +, writes (2 September 2008):
Well you have alot of girls that you hang out with but do you like any of them?or any other girl?
I would find a guy friend (one that you know is straight)and hang out with them.Because it may be male bonding you lack.I would try that first man.You say you dont think your bi or gay and sounds like you dont want to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): Sounds like you're just figuring your sexuality out right now. Maybe try talking to this guy some more and see if you can make better friends with him, and once you are, maybe if you start hanging out more then you might be able to work out exactly how you feel about him. The fact that you don't really know him that well and think he's good-looking could mean that you have a crush on him. But it could just be a phase of appreciating another guy, or do you think about him in a sexual way too? If you do that could be some sign that you may be beginning to be bi or gay even.
So you have loads of girl friends but you don't really like any of them either?
Hope I've helped out a little, message me if you want to chat more :)
xx Hope xx
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