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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I wait for my online boyfriend, or go for the real life guy who cares for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Here is my problem. I met a guy online, we like eachother so much. He is going to visit me in a couple of months (We live in different countries). He is always busy since he is on duty in the army in Iraq. lately, He rarely talk to me or even email ...

Is this love or convenience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Is this love or convenience? I asked my gf of two years to marry me and move to a different city. She said yes after thinking about it for two days. When she announced her resignation from her employee, she was relieved that her employer wanted ...

My boyfriend spends more time on Runescape than he does with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hey,, Since May 16, 2008 (Friday) I've got a boyfriend W.,, I really love him,, and he loved me too.. But now there's a boy V. and he's 12 years old and he makes our relationship bad and runescape too.. W. is 15 and I'm 16 before you didn't know....

I have a problem concentrating, and I am depressed,because of a girl I like, my friends have told me to get over her, but I can't seem too, what do I do to stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Well i have a problem with a girl in my year (9) and ive liked her for 2 years and im starting to get pretty peed off with everyone because they say get over her and i cant everyday its 'get over her' i cant understand everyones hate for it but she ...

Is he just not into me? How can I get him to open up and feel more comfortable around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm really confused. My boyfriend is really frigid. He wont kiss me unless I ask, he refuses to have sex with me and I'm always the one that hangs up last, or suggests sex, or makes the first move in anything. I've tried asking him why this is the ...

My boyfriend seems to have changed a lot, and not in a good way. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hello :) erm well i'm really worried about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 10 months but he seems to be changing a lot and NOT in a good way :( The thing is, since he started college he has been very quiet with me, very sarcastic and seem...

He was such a gentleman, so charming! But since he flew out of town, I haven't heard from him at all! I'm clueless! Men, what is your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I was seeing a very gentlemanly, charming man for a little over a month. Every time we were together his charming ways would shine through more and more. I don’t even think he realized how charming he was being. He would say the sweetest things ...

How can I get my teacher fired as she is real nasty to the students?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Sorry this isnt a relationship question but i really need advice. This is a long story that goes over two years so ill cut it short. Well i am at a course for literacy numeracy and helping to get into work. It was going great and i got heaps of ...

My heart won't let me love anybody else but him. He on the other hand, can't love only me? He's the biggest flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've been in this relationship for 12 years. Let me explain how much I love this man. He's my first love. You know that ride or die type of love? The one that blurs what's wrong and right just as long as you're together. He's always been my K...

My girlfriend is willing to do anything just to clear her face of acne, and it's causing problems between us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Am I really being selfish? My girlfriend of nearly 2 years is currently on the pill, and has been since nearly the beginning of our relationship. The problem is she is 23 and almost 24, and she still has achne break outs, and feels she is missing ...

My Girlfriend is a bitch...Or is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Well to start, my girlfriend blows up into a bitch at any chance, shes been diagnosed with depression a couple years ago. She gets 'stressed out' extremely easily. Today, I get to class and my class is cancelled. So talking on MSN at my school, I ...

My boyfriend likes to tease me a lot, sometimes rudely. Or am I a nit pick?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend likes to tease me a lot. I understand sometimes it is funny but sometimes it really gets to me. For example, when I got home last night we were about to go to bed and he said I bet in your dream home you want a huge closet, I said yes ...

My ex husband abused me and my children, I am still dealing with the after effects of his abuse and I finally want to confront him! Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - i am going to do a very brave thing and confront my abuser. as from 2 weeks ago he is now my ex husband but i am still dealing with the after effects of what he put me and my our kids through. i feel so much anger as he abused me emotionally and ...

I think he is a psychotic. I have no escape from him. I tried to make him understand, but he cannot see any man touching me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am a 41 year old divorcee, living with a 13 year old daughter. I got divorced 7 years back and had been having a relationship with a married person all these years. Even though he loved me so much, he had his limitations always and he could ...

I have no doubt we'll stay together forever, I just don't know how I can stand this hurt about his past sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I really need help, I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and I know he loves me more than anything in the world. He's the most wonderful person and I trust him completely. He's the first person I've sl...

My boyfriend did not call me on my birthday-Am I reading too much into the situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend did not call me on my birthday. I wouldn't want to say that he "forgot" because that just might not be the case. Me and my boyfriend are in this long-distance relationship, me being in NY and he being in London. I had my birthday ...

My boyfriend is so immature, he pouts constantly like a child, I am at a point where I feel I want a MAN and not a boy! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship w/ my bf for 2 years. Sometimes I feel like it's very serious. Sometimes I just want to leave. There are so many problems that I don't where to start. First of all, sometimes he is so immature I feel ...

I have lost interest in my current girlfriend, and I think about my ex-girlfriend, although it's been two years, since we broke up, what do I do at this point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - i think i lost interst in my current girlfriend and i still yhink about my ex alot although it as been almost 2 years since i lost her...

She is my first girlfriend, and I think I love her, but am not sure, as she annoys me sometimes, not sure I want to break up either or hurt her, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - So I have this girlfriend of about 6 months, she's my first girlfriend (I'm 17 she's 18), and it wasn't love at first sight, I just wanted a short relationship cause she left for college (in Europe) about 5 months in. But as we got further I started ...

My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to repair our relationship, but he got angry and won't talk to me.after he broke a date,and I got uposet with him, I saw him, and he wouldn't even speak, why is he reacting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I are in the process of rebuilding our once really close friendship and had agreed to see each other Thursday. He cancelled on me Thursday and I got upset because I had rearranged my schedule around for him. So we stopped speak...

My husband and I don't see each other as often as we should, and we argue a lot, I think I have fallen for my husband's brother and I don't want it to be true, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've been married for 2 years and im afraid that i've fallin for my husbands....brother. Oh my gosh this is so hard. I don't want this to be true. Could this just be a phase i'm going through because i don't see my husband alot and when we see ...

I am in charge of a woman at work, who I have grown fond of, she used to have lunch with me, now she doesn't and has become distant, I asked her out, she declined, and she appears irritated, whatever I do, please give me some insight into what I shou

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - For the past few months I've grown to have feelings for a woman I work with. About the first five months, I didn't feel anything for her and simply went about my day. She's the very quiet type unless spoken to. She keeps her answers short and does ...

Most of the time, we can only talk online. Then her replies are delayed and out of context. Also feel she is finding excuses to end the relationship. Your opinion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - My gf has been very busy reading news and joining online discussion about election. When we met online, I need to wait a long time for her to reply the message. At least 10 minutes. The worse, the reply isn't actually a reply eg hahahahahaha or ...

He is insecure about having sex. How can I help him? What if we never do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - i've recently stared a relationship with a guy who i feel very strongly about. He's the first one in a long while that i've thought i could really stick with. The problem is a few weeks ago we shared a bed and to which i thought we would of had sex....

He abuses me - is it wrong for me to tell his disabled mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I have locked myself in my dads car just to stop my boyfriend from abusing me. He also wants to go off at my mum over childish things that have nothing to do with him. Thats going to turn her against me. Is it wrong for me to tell his disabled mum ...

His kids are controlling and selfish, and pitch a fit whenever he mentions marriage. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - if a man does not propose after dating for 3 years and9 months, should a person leave the relationship or just hang on and hope that it will happen soon? his grown children which are married pitch a fit when he mentions getting engaged or even ...

I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...

I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginit...