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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me? I don't ask my bf to do a lot of things for me but the things I do ask are very important to me. He never has done any of the things I asked him to do. He always makes some lame excuse...

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in ...

My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. Th...

I think my girlfriend is no longer insterested in me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Alright... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year. Our 'honeymoon period' went very well. For almost nine months, infact. Sex, communication, friendship, etc... Everything was great. We never argued. Then slowly, ...

What can I do to make this man stand up to his kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - what actions do i need to take? because I have been dating an older man that has grown married kids that have rotten marriages, have never grown up, can't get past the past and always wants their dad to be with them and he always has to sugar co...

It seems so out of character but my fiance hit me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am new here, but something has happened that I would really like some unbiased opinions about. This may be long... My fiancé and I are both 25 and have been really close friends for almost 10 years. He has always had a "thing" for me, but I wa...

My boyfriend and my best friend deny the rumours (I was told they slept together) - now I'm hurt and don't trust them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So about two weeks ago I was told by one of my bestfriends, that a previous rumor I heard about my boyfriend of 6 months was true. He had slept with my "bestfriend" of four years three or four times. I had confronted both of them about a month ago ...

Help me understand the selfish and inconsiderate behaviour of my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am faced with a new problem in regards to my fiancee of two years. It has become a new habit for him to not follow through with what he says he's going to do. For instance, he'll tell me he'll be at a friend's house till 8pm and then he'll come ...

We've always been good friends but he rejected my friend request!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - HI i've been known this guy all my life hes more like a big brother but we have never been that close seen each other now and then hes 21 im 18, i saw him the other night we had a quick chat and then went our sepparate ways, so then i saw his ...

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next...

I don't really want him, but I need him until I get back on my feet. Any other ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5916 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I recently posted a question in regards to my current bf cheating with his ex. It wasn't a one time thing, truth is I don't know how long or how many times or when it even started or if it ever ended when we got together. I believed him then when he ...

I have anxiety about him needing space and time to gather his thoughts! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - This past Friday, my boyfriend and I had a stupid argument. It started over my feelings about money. I asked him to buy me something and he related to me that he wasn't sure if he would have enough to get it. I caught an attitude because of this and ...

How do I keep things civilized if she keeps ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I got a refund for a couple of Music festival tickets the other day and half of that is my ex girlfriends money. Strangely enough i bumped into her at the festival (out of 100,0000 people) and she didnt seem surpised to see me at all and was quite ...

He wants a baby, I think I'm still too young, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now, we have a house and a dog, he is ready for kids i am not. We argued about this early this year and in the end to keep him i agreed to start trying after our holiday in september.(yes he ...

Help Being emotionally supportive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am currently in a relationship with the most wonderful woman. We've been going out for almost two years now and ive been the happiest man alive. Untill the other day. For a while ive noticed something was wrong but put it down to stress as she...

My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone ...

How can I bring his interest back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im 16 n m boyfrnd is 17..we bth love each other n has a very gud understnind we hav been in relationshp snce 5 mnths..in starting he gve a lots of importnce bt nw its getting reduce..m worried abt it...i knw he dosnt hav dat much time n manges to ...

We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He liste...

Is it me or is this getting worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...

What can I do to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi,basically me an mum have fallen out so ive been staying at my mother in law 2 bs house. i recently got a txt from my fionce saying me being there at his house has made him less tolerable and upset and that i only consider his happines...

My heart says take him back and use this experience to make the relationship stronger. My head says run. Which should I listen to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend cheated on me while very drunk. I haven't forgiven him or taking him back at this point. Right now I have told him I need time to myself. I've asked him to move out of our apartment and leave me alone for awhile. I am really ...

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

What can I do to strenghten my relationship with my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am 40 and have a family of my own. About 20 years ago, against my parent's wishes, I attended University which led to split between us for about 10 years. About 10 years ago I realized that I needed to make an effort to re-unite with my parents ...

He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...

Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun...

He has just recently contacted his ex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Girls, I need your gut instincts. I recently logged into my boyfriend's page for the heck of it and there I found him messaging back and forth with one of his ex from 2-3 years ago. Now while they were dating, he was into her, but she broke up wit...

My best friend is mad at me and I don't know how to apologize to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay I have a friend, who i use to be BEST FRIENDS with, i loved her SOOOOOO much, and i still know EVERYTHING about her, its just that, she was normally more popular than me. Then after a bit, she got REALLY REALLY mad at me. And One of MY OTHER ...

We broke up in good terms but I don't understand why I'm still in love with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I know its only been a month and a half but I am still in love with my ex. We were together for two years and we broke up amicably for good reasons. He moved 2 hours away and I just got job an hour and a half further away. He kept calling and...

I didn't want to have sex with him and he went ballistic!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Please help me im so heart broken. Should i stay or not? We went to the museum today everything was so fun.. When then he said lets go to (his friends names house) and he wanted to have sex but his friend was home. So i didnt want to of cours...

I'm sexually attracted to my female cousin but she's afraid of any physical contact!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am Sexually attracted to my female cousin who Lives with me she's 21 and i am 29 i want do something to her when she comes into my room and sits on my bed and talks to me but I Love her but when we try to do something she gets Scared and runs off ...