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*sb5000
writes:I am a newlywed. My husband had left his personal email account open last night, and i read a recent email from an ex girlfriend og his from years ago who he never slept with. He said in the email that he had really wanted to sleep with her, followed by a smiley wink. The email also talked about the fact that he was getting married and the fact that she had recently divorced. I know he hasn't cheated on me (yet!) but I feel slightly betrayed. I think it wasn't entirely appropriate for him to say this to her. Should I confont him about the email? Or should i just put it down to flirting?
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reader, ssb5000 +, writes (7 September 2008):
ssb5000 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone, in particular Annalisa - your approach was just right, he realised he was completely inappropriate and feels terrible about it. He put it down to banter, but promised it wont happend again. I can only but give him the benefit of the doubt!
thanks again
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Excellent advice from Annalisa! I'd follow it to the letter if I were you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): Yes confront him and ask him if its o.k for you to contact you ex's and flirt with them. He has a nerve to treat his wife like this.GOOD LUCK
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reader, lulababe +, writes (2 September 2008):
you should confront your husband about this,you have only just got married and he is making suggestions to another woman about sleeping together.where is the trust ??talk to your husband find out his reasons,and if he loves you he will tell this woman the truth and stop contacting her.xxx
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Leave it and keep your eyes open. What would be the benefit in confronting him other than petty points scoring and souring your relationship?
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