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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My two friends are so mean! How do I put a stop to this behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - basically i'm starting to dislike how my best friends act. one of them is a girl, lets call her stacy. and the other is a boy, lets call him ryan. (but he's gay.. so he's like a girl). anyways ryan is a mean person in general, loves to criticize ...

When we're alone it's quiet. How can I liven up the conversation with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5906 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i hate how it's silent with me and him. we've been going out for 2 days. we've known each other since middle school. when we're alone it's quiet. we're both not shy, but when we're together we just are! and when we're around people its usually like ...

My boyfriend never sees the best in me, but expects me to see the best in him! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - why does my boyfriend never see the best in me,yet im always expected to see the best in him, why do boys behave in this pathetic way? ...

I'm frustrated! Why won't he talk about marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have lived together for two. When we first agreed to move in together I said that I would not move in if there wasnt a mutual agreement about marriage as Ive lived with 1 other person before and just want ...

What does he want to do with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Six months ago I argued with my love , I was so tired of everything . He asked me '' don't you want me to call you anymore '' , I answered it will be better not to talk for a while. I was angry to him when I told that.After that we just talked on ...

I've been through an awful divorce and am now in a trouble relationship with an alcoholic. I feel like I need to run away and start anew. What is best for me and my kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I was in an abusive rationship of almost 12 years. I dont have the best relationship with my mother or my family. My brother commited suicide a few months before my husband left me for another woman. Since then I struggled with an evil ex-husband ...

We were 'wife swapping', then jealousy started, insecurity started and we ended up having so many fights. But we still love them.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - We were friends, best friends with a couple and their two kids. We turned like family, always hanging out together. Over two years ago, we mutually decided to experiment sexually with each other' partners. It started with simple massage sessions...

She cheated on me and got pregnant! So can I ever trust her to not cheat again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - This maybe abit long but it explains the whole situation, sorry for it being so long: Ok so I had been having a long distance relationship with my now fiance, we have known eachother for 13 years now, this October it will be 14 years. I am 20 years...

He's been asked to travel again for his work, for 3 months this time, he said he wouldn't go again but now he wants to - for the money. I want to break up over this, what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi I hope you can help me. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now. We've had our differences but we love each other very much. His job involves alot of travel, but its normally in the same country so he is normally home at weekends...

I know he's just playing with me, but I don't know how to get over him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - a year ago i was with this guy,that i really loved but he started changing day after day..and finaly we broke up.it was the hardest thing i could ever do and it still hurts(wrote about it over here and everyone said that i will get over him but that ...

Me, my girlfriend, and her husband... How do I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Im in love with a girl whos married, we all live in the same house. She has 5 kids with her husband, and she is pregnant with my child, the baby is due in late may 09. At first we all was happy but then my g/f and her h/b split up becuz h/b sed he...

Lost my virginity while my bf was away! Will he know I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has gone away to study. When he left i was a virgin but now I'm not. Will he know that I'm not a virgin? I dont want to tell him the truth bcause i know what will happen. ...

How do I cope with my bf and his loser friend... getting wasted and playing video games, all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - so this may sound really dumb and petty but I live with my boyfriend and I work days, I get up at 4:00 am and I get off at two then I have school until 10:00 at night. My boyfriend works from 1:00 pm until maybe 7 or 8. He makes good money and pays ...

I want to get together with him but he always changes his mind. What's going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hello i have a question.this guy that i'm talkin to is cool and we get along even though he can be irritating sometimes. I met him online and i knew him through one of his family members. we started off talkin on the phone and textin each other. i ...

I found a butt plug in my boyfriend's drawer, and found out he has been responding to gay personals. But he says he's not gay... What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my guy for almost a year and I recently found a butt plug in one of his drawers (used). I know it's his because of the receipt. Other than the butt plug, I also found out that he has responded to ads on CL to J/O with other guys ...

She wants to move in, but I'm happy the ways things are. I feel like she is being selfish. Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I don't know whether to stay in a relationship or to tell her I give up? We are both lesbian. She wants me to move in with her--has wanted this since 2 months after we met. I am not used to moving this fast. Apparently this is common with les...

He acts like my boyfriend, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Is he serious about us at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating the guy for over a month, we acted like in the relationship, so I throw the question a few weeks ago about what stage we were in, I was upset seeing him not willing to see it as relationship,so he said we were gf and bf. but he ...

I don't mind that he catches up with his mates, but he does it ALL THE TIME. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5908 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - need desparate help ive been with my partner for 1 year now and ive moved inwith him. at the begining we were always togther,his ex stoped him talking to his mates and now with me hes got them back he constantly chatts to them on the internet and...

I don't know how to handle this open relationship anymore. I feel defeated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Thanks in advance. I am a 43 yr old women. I am currently in a relationship(7 yrs now)... I feel stuck and depressed. We(He and I) have been through our ups and downs. I have given way too much to this relationship. I know this is my ...

My boyfriend can't sem to have sex with me. Is he not attracted to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I just got back together after 2 years. We have worked everything out about our past emotionally, but the physical part has not caught up. He did most of the damage in our past that makes him have more guilt than me. I was hurt...