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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I stop the obsession I have for my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - well, where do i start? it all started in seventh grade. i fell in love. with my gym teacher. he's 26, and i am 13. he hates me, but i love him. he doesnt make eye contact with me, and i have a poster of him in my closet. i'm so deeply passionately ...

He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying ...

Je suis desolé

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Je suis desolé I never meant for it to end this way, Your woe breaks my heart, I guess what I want to say, Is I don’t want us to part. It kills me that I upset you so, I was just so happy to know you, I hate that I made you feel so ...

What was that attracted me about her? I was never attracted to her physically!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi there. I dated "her" for 4 months. LOVED everything about her but...when it came time for sex..I wasnt attracted.or was I ...cant figure it out!!.We did a few times a week after much effort on my part...I always had to think of other women ug...

I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories ...

Does this guy have issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Very strange guy i am thinking. See what you think. Were in same yr at school, met up on facebook few weeks ago, met in person 2 weeks ago tomorrow for a drink in the day. I went out with mates that night, he txt saying pop round on way home, i ...

Should I keep on dating my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing ...

He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...

Can the love and affection of two people, in the wrong place and time, jut don't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I really am new to love. I have really had bad relationships. . . Then while trying to fish information about my cheating husband, I fell for his acquaintance. This led to a one year over the phone, six time physical encounter which was most ...

When he dumped me, I had realized how mean I was to him and wanted to change, but it was too late. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I wonder if someone can help me. Me and my boyfriend had been together for just about 10 months. We had a lot of big things happen to us, that I think kept us stronger in the beggining of the relationship. He had totaled my car, and I also got...

Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not...

How do I stop my crush on my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...

Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...

I'm a shadow of the woman I used to be in my marriage. Has his emotional cruelty turned me into this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Would love to hear any advice. I am completely overwhelmed with my situation and don't know where to begin to sort it out. For at least the last 10 years of my 15 years of married life I have been unhappy. I have always found my husband to be ...

When I tell him of the hurt he's caused me, he passes the blame to me! Why is he doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a friend who says he is in love with me. We are really great friends, however, i am not sure if i am ready for a relationship. What I can't understand is that whenever I try to speak to him about some emotional hurt he has caused to me, he ...

I can't seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach. Did I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I cant seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach, like something is definetly missing. I have had this same hallow spot for the last 5 years after breaking up with the love of my life (at the time) he const...

How can I be with him another time and handle his strange personality? Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - hello everybody..i dumped a boy i loved 2 months ago,and i still love him..because he was acting strangly and he sat all the time with hif 'friends'and he was always depressed about something and he never talked about it..and he always said nice ...

Is true happiness just a myth, will nothing ever be okay??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, this is for all of you, ive recently became part of ''Dear cupid'' and been reading all of these articles, written by guys, girls, of all ages and i just wonder so much of the time, how could a world as cruel as ours even exist?? ...

Wondering if my ex's current relationship is a rebound and if she has really gotten over me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of a year broke up with me because i did some bad things, not cheating. I know I was wrong and she didn't think I could change. So I went through some changes for a month or so talking to people realizing what I did. She still was ...

I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley ge...

My boyfriend is not affectionate to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years. I love him very much and i care for him deeply. I know that he knows my feelings for him. However, he rarely tells me that he loves me. The only time i hear it is when i say it first. And even then ...

I was molested when I was a child and this has given me insecurities about myself! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I agree that being molested as a child can screw up ones sexual idenity. Here is my reasoning. I was molested from the age of 12 to the age of 14. I am not gay but I do beleive that I am Bi-sexual. Which is very weird because I dont want to be ...

I now realize that I was was wrong. What can I do for her to believe this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - so i went out with this girl for 2 years 10 months. the first year and a half was great, but the rest just got worse and worse. she broke up with me about a month ago becasue i never treated her right, i was too controlling, and angry most of the t...

I am torn between loving two women.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in ...

A lot of people think my girlfriend is a loser and she's afraid I'll leave her because of that, which is not true. What can I do to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls ...

Should I follow everyone's advice and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Can you really just Fall out of Love? I was head over heels for this guy for over three years but the last few months my psych meds have changed and I see how he has been treating me - it has gotten to the point that I now realize what my friends ...

Was I a stalker, or just a jilted person with a big crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so I read someone else's question, and wonder am I a stalker, or just a typical crazy chick? I had a fling with this totally hot guy I worked with part time. I had, had a crush on him for over a year. when he finally asked me out I was thrilled. ...

Boyfriend masturbates to porn and then says, "it's not you". Why does he choose this over me?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I really badly need to get this off my chest (no pun intended). I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and when we first got together, things were great. Then I found out he watches porn. One night, I was feeling ill, and...