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writes:Hi everyone,So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I dont feel anything. Ive got a barrier up which I cant seem to let down as Ive been hurt before and abused when i was little. I dont know what to do. I want to give the guy a chance and I do like him in some way and feel quite close but I also feel smothered as he told me he loved me after a month!! We havent had sex yet but I know he wants to as he cant keep his hands off me when were alone but I know hes not just after that. Yet some things he says make me think otherwise. Im lost and dont know what to do. Ive tried to tell him how i feel but i dont think he fully understands.Please helpThanksEmxx Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou +, writes (2 September 2008):
 I think you should take a break from this relationship and find out what you want. Maybe counselling will help you to come to terms with what happened in your past as this may be preventing you from really letting yourself go with this guy. On the other hand he may just not be the one and the break will help you decide. I wish you luck x
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reader, hanz1993 +, writes (2 September 2008):
 You need to try harder then......sit down in an environment where you both feel comfortable and safe, then tell him exactly what you've just told us here on dear cupid. Only you can do something about this.x
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