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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 Some guys last a long time. Some get off quick. He takes a while. Your friend should just use lubrication or try to masturbate him after she cums so that she doesn't get sore.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 She can just use lube....that will def help if its just a case of it hurting her. But if she doesnt enjoy it she needs to be honest with him...you cant be selfish when having sex!
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reader, BabyGurl27 +, writes (4 September 2008):
BabyGurl27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea but she is also hurting from this and i'm not using any names. Their might be other people out here that have the same problem and looking for the same answer so why not help someone who need a answer to this question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): Yea I know she's your friend but I put myself in the guy's position: I would be horrified if I found my personal and private problems had been discussed with a friend - let alone broadcast on the world wide web! Wouldn't you?
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reader, BabyGurl27 +, writes (3 September 2008):
BabyGurl27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason why i care is because she is My FRIEND? She come to me a talk about this. I told her that i was going to ask someone on dearcupid. She said that it was ok to do so. If you have a problem with that don't answer the question. We have that type of relationship unlike others. She throught she was the problem why he last so long. She was thinking she wasen't good down below
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Some guys enjoy going for this long, they dont realise that for most women its sore, painful and actually quite boring!!! I was with a guy who practised tantric sex where he could stop himself from coming. Yeah it was great to start with and I had tons of orgasms but after awhile I got really sore and fed up!! I never saw him again I couldnt be doing with that every time. She just needs to talk to him, if he wants a marathon session every time then maybe they are not that well suited. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): Why should you care about the private problems of someone elses guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): It might be because he is used to another method to reach orgasm?I once had a friend with a similar problem. He confided in me that he had spent a long time single and had masturbated a lot during this time. Then he found himself in a relationship and, whilst he could maintain an erection, he couldn't ejaculate during intercourse. He went to see a doctor about it who suggested that his body may be used to something else. The recommendation was to abstain from all forms of sexual activity, including masturbation, for about a month and then focus on sex and only sex.It took my friend a long time but now he has a baby girl so I assume something worked out!
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