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writes:why dosent he talk to me?ive been seeing this guy for about 7 months through college. we have recently got back together after i dumped him becuse i wasnt happy. when we are together he dosent no what to say and we never talk, i no hardly anything about him. i dont no if he is just shy or if he is just playing me!! he flirts wit other girls infront of me and im sick of it! i dnt talk to him becuse he dosnt talk tu me and its making us both unhappy. what du i do?? help x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Hi listen i had a bf like that before and he ended up going out with m bestfriend and dumping me. If you realy feel like you have a chance with this guy then you should try to work it out, but if he doesnt show that he wants to work things out then you should probably try to end it. It is painful and it does suck but its better than regretting someone that ended up being a big jerk.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (3 September 2008):
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My boyfriend's the same way, though he tries his best to talk to me. He was like that in the beginning of our relationship (except the flirting). The thing is that he's a man of few words and likes listening more than talking. Maybe your boyfriend is the same way. But you'll never know until you ask him.
Now, what do you mean by "flirting" with other girls? Are you sure it's even flirting? Just because your boyfriend smiles at them doesn't mean he's flirting. Also, if he hugs a female friend of his doesn't mean flirting. Now, if you mean flirting with the full word, then talk to him about it, don't be afraid. Ask him why he does this and even ask him about the lack of communication between you.
Don't wait for him to take the first step or you'll be empty handed. Go, aproach him, and ask away. Probably he's shy as you say.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Hello, Why do you want to be with him then? He doesn't seem like fun!!!!!!! Hannah
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