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My bf says he loves me but he's really better off single. I don't get it *guys opinions please*

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Question - (22 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok iv been on and off with my boyfriend 3 times now and he has recently said to me that he is not happy being with me and that he was better off single and i asked him why and he said because i feels like i dont love him and i said 'if you're so unhappy then why are you still with me?' and he said cuz he loved me. im confused. if he is so unhappy why would he still be with me? is he talking about LOVE or puppy love???

-confused-

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):

Based on you age im going to suggest that its unlikely to be true love. Dont get me wrong if you end up staying together it may end up becoming that.

You need to get to the real reason why he feels unhappy. Is there anything you do to make him feel like you dont care? Talk the problems through with each other.

At your age things shouldnt get complicated though, both do what it takes to make you both happy!

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