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writes:Me and my girlfriend split up about 5 months ago now. We were together for 1 and a half years ish. I believe it ended because she didnt want to be with me because of how i had become, how my life revolved too much around her, how controlling paranoid i became, the nasty things i said and the way we began to argue because of all of the above.We didnt speak to each other for about 2 months, 2 months after we had broken up. She made contact with me again because she found out i had slept with another girl. In the message she said that she has been thinking alot recently and that she has always though from day one wether she has made the right decision or not.Since then we have met up a few times. Shes at university now (which isnt far away) and i have been to see her and went for a night out up there. We kissed and she cried on my shoulder and got on to the topic of this other girl i had slept with.I feel that she is hurt by me sleeping with somebody else, i had a talk with her and i feel the main point she made was that it would probably be different (i.e. get bk together) if i hadnt of slept with this girl. ThenI caught her staring at me numerous times on another night out since this talk and have been in touch with her quite abit.I feel that now she is playing harder to get and maybe even teasing me by some of the stuff she says. So its kind of like im getting mixed signals!Any advice?
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reader, Dear HEART +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Yes you have hurt her by sleeping with someone else put yourself in her shoes how would you feel if she slept with another man.Right now she is like a wounded animal I would try and stay clear from her for a good while, it's true when they say Hell has no fear like a Womans scorn.Ask yourself what made you change from the person you weir at the start of the relationship up untill now.We all do stupid things and make mistakes but there always has to be a price it's lifes plan, whenever you do something wrong you always have to pay the price there is no escaping it.
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