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writes:Well this might be a pretty long story but please take sum tim to read it and please give me sum advice...Well the thing is, my ex split up with me just over a month ago and now hes asking for me bk but i dno cos let me tell u wat happend wen we were togetherwell we were together 2 months and around 1 week b4 he broke up with me,1 month into our relation ship i found out that he was going to dump me for one of his ex gf's. i found out by his ex, and i confronted him and he said " yeah well i didnt did i, cos i love you and realised i wud be stupid to jack you for her". and then i said "wud you have told me wot u were thinking if she hadnt" and he said "no" and i said " ohh why not " and he said " cos erm i wud have forgot" and i was just thinking yeah right !! but anyway i forgave him and things got bk to normal yay! but then a few weeks later, i found out he was talking behind my back saying " dosnt H (me) obviously fancy J ( my best lad m8 ) they shud get together" AND THATS WEN I WAS WITH HIM. and i confronted him again and he said he was sorry he was just a lil "parinoid" and "jealous". so i said ok and nothing changed we were just normal again yay! untill a week or so later, he dumped me and got with his ex ( the one that he was gonna dump me for b4 ) and then the same day he got with her he dumped her, and asked for me bk, i said no, and a few days later he said no matter wot i will still love you, and then a day later he said he fancied my best m8 but she liked sumone else so he said he still loves me and didnt really like my m8 any way he was just trying to cover his feelings for me.now hes asking for me bk again i did stil love him i just said no cos i thought he messed me around but thinking about it it was only a few times and every one deserves a second chance right ??well what do you lot think shud i get bk with him, dus he deserve a second chance even tho he sorta did get a few chances b4 in our first realstion ship:/??shud i give him a second chance????
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): No you shouldnt.
This guy seems like a waste of your time, sorry to be so blunt. He clearly doesnt know what or who he wants so I suggest you tell him where to go, then maybe you will meet someone who is worth your love. People like this dont really change. Good luck!!!!
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reader, amybaby +, writes (22 October 2008):
 really, i think that is a bit silly. i think you both should go your seperate ways to be honest. this seems just like a playground tittletattle
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