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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them ...

I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever from my wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life? I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is ju...

My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?...

I hate his ex and myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because ...

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house ...

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hello all... I will try to keep this short... :) I have been seeing this man from NZ for over a year now, and things have been great, we spent 9 days together and everything was amazing.. Anyways I recently got an invitation to a website calle...

Over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship that's just hit the 3 year mark, even though I'm only 17. We also live together with my dad and older brother. However over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled ...

Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I ...

Friend and boyfriend problems... help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi, ok so my problems quite a big one and its got lots of different things in one, so please carry on reading thanks! I'll start with me and my boyfriend. He means the world to me I love him to bits. The thing is I know I'm too young so please d...

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

I offered him oral on our third date, after that he did not utter a word to me! Your opinions about his change in behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi...I've met a guy..we've been out three times... I gave him oral(my first)...and after he came he was all weird. he didn't say a word to me. He just took me home without kissing me godbye. This happened three days ago and I haven't heard from him ...

I am marginalised in my class, addressed nasty comments and I don't know how to handle it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi right i've got a problem with people on my course. We all used to get on great especially me and the ones i'd only just met on that course-theres some there from school too. But suddenly like a few months ago they started just generally being ...

My whole life was clouded by his behaviour. 20 years later, his apologies would be nice or should I make him literally pay for the damage done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Years ago when I was in my early twenties I had a relationship with a man which became emotionally disturbing. He worked abroad in quite extreme war-type situations. He was a charmer and extremely unfaithful. I used to get calls from girls, o...

Although the relationship was very troublesome, I still feel like I love and want her, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi all, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We had our fair share of problems. She lied to me quite a bit, once about talking to her ex for a few hours, and then about little, meaningless things throughout the ...

My wife's sexual past....it's not the 'normal' jealous story!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Have been married 7 years....happily. Wife mentioned in conversation 3 months ago about a threesome she had once. ( 20 years ago). I explained I don't want to know thing like that as it would do my head in. She mentioned it again. I went in...

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...

He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. ...

I think he likes my friend more than me but I'm in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I made a friend in 6th grade. He's a guy. I'm a girl. We were friends, but didn't hang out much. Then, in the summer I went to the beach. He was there. We hung out that day. I realized I liked him a lot. I told no one. My friend f...

My parents DON'T understand!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm always crying at home and it's because my parents always say something to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I love talking to my friends on the computer, I must admit, I stay on the computer all day and my parents complain that I stay in ...

How do I get him to show me that he loves me? How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend said to me the reason we broke up was because it wasn't working, I wasn't changing and we were always gonna fight and that he doesn't love me and hasn't for the past 2 weeks. (This is wat he said when we broke up) Now he's telli...

Working Couple with Child Emergency

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - In 2006 towards the end of the year my partner, whilst we were both living together at University, became accidentally pregnant. At first I was overjoyed but she wanted an abortion. After time I persuaded her that we should keep the baby and in ...

Best friend - deleted from life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi Me and my best friend had sex on many occasions and then we decided to stop and he even told me to I could join this forum he's a memeber of, which I did since I was into the same music as him, then all of a sudden about 3 weeks ago he say...

I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her...

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a ...

I understand that he wants his space but I think he might be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am not sure whether I have a problem or it is my boyfriend. I will tell you both sides of the story:- After the honeymoon period of the few relationships that I have had wears off, they have failed. None of them have lasted more than 10 mon...

I feel this is all my fault and I just don't feel the will to carry on. How do I learn to forgive myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hello again. My ex and I have been apart for 5 weeks now after 3 years and a half together. It was a bad breakup and if we both had not assumed that the other wanted it over we might not have ended it. It's been 5 weeks and my sadness is growi...

He's smoking pot to cope with his depression, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend quit smoking pot for me for a year, but now, due to feeling depressed, he's started again. He says he doesn't see anything wrong with being high all the time. He says he quit because of his love for me, but now he thinks we ...

He has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...

Should I leave him for good or try to get him back? I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two yrs... well we've been having some problems. Last night he said he needed a break and i needed a break and he thinks its better if were just friends again. Problem is i dont think i can do that, ...

She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...

I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us. Now he wants to meet in person and he wants me to perform oral sex on him. To me this is cheating on his partner. He tel...

How do I cope with being too clingy without making her feel completely ignored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - straight to the point, i met a girl and have met her like 3 times and i absoulty love her. i really feel im loving this girl but i cant help not be clingy and if i try not to talk to her she thinks im ignoring her. I really like this girl and have...

He said he really wanted to meet up again sometime-but hasn't, what went wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago and we were txting eachother back and forth for a while. At first I was just viewing him as a guy I could have a few drinks with - ntohing special, but then it emerged we had loads in common and he ended up inviting me ...

Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...

Why am I so unable to be happy with what I've got?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - So i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. For the past month i've been working closely with a collegue at work, and began to have feelings for him. He admitted to me about a week ago that he's crazy about me. I told him i had feelings for ...

How do I stand with getting a divorce so early into our marriage? How do I manage financially when my husband is so awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 2.5 years, married for 8 months, have an 18 month old child and now expecting our next child, I am 11 weeks pregnant and very much planned/wanted. Our relationship, once the gloss disappeared has been somewha...

She is my soul mate, lover, best friend, wife, and mother of my children. All she wants to do is party!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - My wife of almost 8 years left me for partying, and to "miss me" so she can fall in love again, from what she said. I know she is just out partying. This wouldn't be as big a deal, but we have 10 years together, 8 of which is marriage, and 3 chil...

I want to be with him but we keep fighting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Please HELP! I posted before, I'm doing it again, I've know Rahul for just over 2 months. We began chatting via mxit, and our conversations went well until a Monday morning 4 weeks ago, I was overwhelmed by emotion and I told him Ii liked him, just ...

Do I keep waiting and risk getting hurt? Or let him go and risk being alone forever??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Ok, I am 15 years old and I live in a girls group home. I've been in some trouble before. Mostly just running away from home and things. I have an abandonedment issue. My mom left me around the time I was 10 and didn't give a warning at all. Before ...

Wondering if the relationship is worth saving - after she has been cheating me on the rent, double charging me to clear her arrears -, and if so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I moved in with my partner in October past having been together for about 18 months, believing that I had found a strong relationship based on love and trust. I recently discovered that she has been cheating me on the rent since I moved in, double ...

How can I make my husband be more responsible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have a husbend who has a chimecal disorder and i he is going out to have fun all night and working at afternoon . when he is coming into the house he's main and grumpy don't talk to me dont joke with me . i dont see him and he doesn't want to ...

Am I missing her or just missing being in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hey Cupids. Perhaps you can help me. My ex and I started dating last may/june. She was always on/off with me, some nights telling me she never wants to let me go, others giving me the cold shoulder. This resulted in her breaking up with...

He now wants to have a relationship with another girl as well as me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we ...

I'm divorced and broke until finances are sorted. My new man is wealthy but doesn't help much and says I should claim State Benefits..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Im divocing my husband at the moment and waiting to sort out the finance matter with my husband. I've met this man who is very nice to me. I am looking for a job and have no money. He has got a good job and quite weathly but he doesnt offer any ...

Why would he cheat with me if he was really happy with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have this friend. (we'll call him jon) I met jon a few days ago while hanging with friends after school. he flirted with me and I flirted with him. he asked for my number and gave me his. that afternoon jon started texting me. he told me he li...

Text How do you tell an ex you don't want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - How do you tell an ex you dont want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way? My ex lied a couple of times, we split, but tried again, it didnt work out again. That was begining of the yr. We are friends and thats fine, but recently...

I don't hate him, I dislike the behaviour and lies about other women though. I'd like to see him again to clarify these, good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i recently told the man i've been sleeping with that my son passed away and after a week of not hearing from him i blasted him for being so cold hearted to a person that had been nothing but good to him. not to mention at the same time there was ...