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writes:i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we hardly saw each other and the feeling was too high but since the last 4 weeks or so things have got different. he says he doesn't have that "love" feeling anymore but still likes me heaps and i still feel what i felt for him before. he told me that I'm the girl he has cared for the most ever and i truly believe him because he has always been honest with me. but now he says that he might want to have a relationship with another girl and at the same time have what we have right now.i agreed to it. but i really don't know what to do.if anyone has been through a situation like this please advice me. all replies would be appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your replies. i really appreciated it. it still is hard to let go of him but i will try to do that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe as said that if i like a guy then its cool with him that i go out with the other guy and still be "friends" with this guy.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Okay, perhaps some translation is in order: "I don't like you, but you are a decent fuck, so while I am out looking for a better girl lets continue to have sex, oh and you can't look at other men because that would upset my ego".
Clear enough?
It all depends on wether you want to be a sextoy for this guy while he finds true love.
He "cares" for you the most? Odd way of showing it. Sorry, it is a line, nothing more. He just says whatever he thinks you want to hear.
Best get rid of this guy unless you enjoy heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): This bloke is definately not for you. You deserve better and should end this pantomime right now. He wants to go out with someone else other than you, i would tell him to buggar off. No way would i stay in that sort of relationship. He is having a laugh. You have both probably said you love each other way too soon. He hasnt really meant it and now he want out. Well, tell him to go and you will meet someone who you so rightly deserve.
take care xx
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 He wants you as a FWB not a girlfriend,three months is not long enough to declare love either. I think he uses the word love too loosely and has reeled you into believing that you are the girl for him. Also he is using as a stop gap by saying he wants a relationship with you and another girl.
If I was you I would tell this guy where to go because any self respecting person would not want to play second fiddle to their boy/girlfriend would they. Find someone who wants a monogamous relationship and kick this insensitve jerk to the kerb. Dusky xxx.
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