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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two yrs... well we've been having some problems. Last night he said he needed a break and i needed a break and he thinks its better if were just friends again. Problem is i dont think i can do that, im madly in love with him and i dont want to lose him. We were each others first on everything. He hasn't been that nice to me though... and he's a bit controlling. For instance my mom lives a few states away from me so i only get to see her once a yr if that, well he told me if i went to go see her this year he'd break up with me and find someone that would stay with him. (it was only goin to be for 2 weeks) he doesnt like my friends(so he says. but he still talks to them) or my family. Well my family doesn't like him either and almost all my friends don't like him. i know these are signs that maybe we shouldn't be together but i can't let him go.. he's on my mind 24/7, and i don't think i could handle seeing him with someone else. And there's no one around where i live that i'd want to be with. I need help to either get over him completely or try and get him back... i don't know what to do, i'm confused, heartbroken, a little relieved, scared, i don't know. i'm sorry if this was a little all over the place i just dont know what to do :(
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 I stopped reading once I got to the part about him telling you he would break, up with you if you went to see your Mom, who you only see once a year.
HELLO?!
Please leave this idiot, you may think you are madly in love with him but he doesn't love, respect or cherish you if he can treat you like that.
It will be hard to leave him but once you have gotten over him/the relationship, you will look back and wonder why you let yourself be treated like that.
You really do deserve better.
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