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Why am I so unable to be happy with what I've got?

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Question - (30 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mber nuttall writes:

So i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. For the past month i've been working closely with a collegue at work, and began to have feelings for him. He admitted to me about a week ago that he's crazy about me. I told him i had feelings for him, but it was a no go area as i love my boyfriend and won't leave him.

Last night i went to a friends party, an old flame appeared and we got talking and dancing. In the end i got really drunk and slept with him in one of the spare beds.

I feel aweful. I'm so confused. I love my boyfriend. But i have all these feelings for my work collegue and the old flame. Why am i so unable to be happy with what i've got? I never seem to be able to stay happy with one person, and not get wondering eyes. HELP!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

If you are 16-17 then you are way too young to be settle in a relationship, that you have just proved by sleeping with someone else. If you love your bloke you wouldnt of done this. If i was you i would end the steady relationship, be free and single and enjoy your youth and experiment, with precautions, of course. Then meet someone later on and settle down, but do your bf a favour and get out of his life now before he gets hurt.

take care

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