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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I am sorry to hear that.
You will grief over the loss but don't grief for too long as
the new world is outside there and there is still life after him.
I am sure you will find the right one .
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reader, Tamarillo  +, writes (30 March 2008):
Tamarillo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am going totally crazy on the inside..i can't think straight right now. I wish he would suffer but i know hes already ahead of the getting over the break up curve.
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reader, Tamarillo +, writes (30 March 2008):
Tamarillo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i have pretty much ruined everything right?
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reader, Tamarillo +, writes (30 March 2008):
Tamarillo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe email i sent him was thisDear (name)I phoned you up yesterday and asked for another chance to work things out.All I can say is that I tried my best and you rejected my efforts.You have already had a head start in the grieving process and I have yet to start mine again. Next saturday is my birthday...im sure you forgot that.Hope your weekend is going well
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reader, Tamarillo +, writes (30 March 2008):
Tamarillo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i just sent him an email saying i tried my best and that he rejected my offer and that i was getting on with it.
he doesnt want it...i have to accept that fact...its been dragging on for three months now.
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female
reader, Laura1318 +, writes (30 March 2008):
Don't beg or plead with him.
You would appear to be the clingy one and it is a turn off for him.
Nothing is final yet. It is only an intermission or a pause in your relationship.
Do not contact him for now and wait for him to contact you.
Give him some space and time to assess your relationship.
If the decision is favourable , he will contact you again.
If he realized that he cannot get along without you he will
contact you whether you tell him not to contact him or not.
If he does not contact you , it is probably over.
Nothing you gonna say or do will bring him back.
You may try to call him up as a friend after a week or so
to test the water and see if he he has changed his position.
Sometimes , time can solve some of your problems.
His outlook may have changed.
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