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Archived questions from: September, 2006 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I ended my relationship...why did he leave it 5 days to come back to tell me he loved me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I ended my relationship with my boyfriend because it was going stale.The problem is,he has been txting me to see him again and iv nearly given in,he says he loves me but what i dont understand is,if he wanted me back that much then why does he leave ...

My ex is nice to me one minute nasty the next, but I still love him!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i have an x bf that is nice to me half the time and nasty to me the other but i still love him he says he is not intrested any more and then he starts acting like he wants me again what can i do i really love him and want him back ?...

He shows me love and affection then he is just my friend..whats going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i love a guy who sometimes shows me affection and love while other times we become just friends sometimes he doesn't answer my calls he tells me everything about his life but i don't know if he loves me or not can you help me please for god sake?...

My babys father abuses me by text and now seems like in nearly 3 years together I was always a secret!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - until recently i was in a relationship with my babys father and he dumped me by txt and then started to abuse me by txt calling me horrible names and a liar.we was together for 2 years 9 months and through out this time never did i meet his best ...

Not sure if I like my boyfriend yet he tells me he loves me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i've got this boyfriend and am not sure that a like but he told me that he loves me and a don't no wot to do?...

I don't have feelings for him anymore, should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am dating this guy we dated for a month then broke up and like a month later we started dating again. He went to germany and when he came back i didnt have feelings for him anymore... we started dating the day he left for germany. he got back like ...

How can I be sure if we don't work out that we can still be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - One of my really close boy mates have just asked me out but i dont no wat to say.Hes 2 years younger than me and a bit shorter than me. I do like him but how can i be sure if i do go out with him and we break up that we'll still me close mates. P...

He wants me to get an apartment so his ex can continue to live in our house!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - Ok folks...awhile ago I wrote about a problem with an ex-g-friends pawning her child on my boyfriend and interrupting in our relationship and everyone was mad because I didn't want any of it anymore...So, update...As he continued to treat her needs ...

How can I get him to speak to me to tell my why he don't call or text me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - it prob sounds stupid, but i havent spoke 2 my ex 4 abpout 3 monthes, ive text him and called him but he doesnt answer me, ive called him before on private he answered and heard it was me and pretended he couldnt hear me which pissed me off, but how ...

Slept with my gym instructor even though we are both in relationships...I don't know what to do!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - i go to gym three times a weak and the aerobics instructor likes me. the next day it became oficially us wen we had sex then he has two kids and a live in partner and i have a 2year boyfreind. what shall i do? i went flirting with him because i ...

I dont know whats wrong with me and Im scared!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - I am so lost right now i don't know how to begin i am making such a mess of my life i am unemplyed i am messing things up with my boyfriend,the only man who has ever been loving i cause arguements everyday now he says he is sick of me an he is not ...

Recently got married to a loving man but our loving making is rare, how do I get him in the mood?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - My problem is I'm in love with a senative, loving man we've been together for 3yrs and married 3mos. I love this man with all my heart. The problem is that I'm a very senual woman who loves making love to my husband. But our love making is not ...

I love her but I'm scared to be honest with her about how I feel and what I want from us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

30 September 2006 (M) - i love my girlfriend more than ive ever told her,she is always telling me how happy she is an wants to be my wife,so why am i so scared to be honest with her and avoid answering her marriage question.lately i have been searching her computer looking ...

He can't stop staring at other women, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

30 September 2006 (F) - my fiance has a really bad staring problem. even if he just hears a womans voice on tv it gets him checking her out. i'm not ugly. and he's not great looking! can you tell me what it might mean? we are engaged and i'm thinking of calling it off. he ...

Everything she has accused me of she's been doing herself, is it worth all the trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

30 September 2006 (?) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years had another tiff and broke up for a week.We are both mature(early 40`s).Her pc was playing tricks and as usual i was trying to mend fix it.I was shocked to find a messenger from a chatroom,in which she was ...

Do men just get a kick out of playing stupid mind games?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I've never been very good at starting relationships it always seems to go wrong. A short while ago I made eye contact with a guy and this continued for about a month. I assumed he was interested. He eventually spoke and asked for my phone number. ...

He's ignoring me and he says he doesn't feel the same way, anymore. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - hey, ive been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years, and hes been great until recently, over the past few months, he's been wanting to see me less and less, so he can spend time with his friends (girls and boys) this week i only really saw him 2 days. we ...

I hate this guy who likes me...how do I get him out of my life??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - Right, theirs this boy and he has fancied me for a hell of a long time but i cant stand him. It started bout two years ago and at first i was flattered, and sorta lked him but then i started talkng to him more and realised very quikly that i ha...

How can I get him to talk, where he won't answer me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - how do i get to talk to my boyfriend when he won't reply to any messages?...

I feel as though my bf is manipulating me, worse still I fear is he cheating!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship with someone forover 12 months; he moved in with me after only two months (silly, I know!!!). I am feeling so confused; I really feel like he manipulates me (although I have no way of proving if this is definitely the ...

I broke up because I was so depressed with her, she says she will change, but Im confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - i am a 21year old male who just got out of a relationship. when we first got together we were so happy together my weight was around 180. Now my weight has gone down about fifteen pounds. We used to be so happy together and when we get around h...

Been together 8 months and my BF just wont commit!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - I think my bf has a commitment phobea or smthin!! we've been together for 8 months now (he's 24 and am 22) and we've gotten really close, we c each others a lot, smtimes daily..and 2 months ago we started "sex play" like havin sex but am still a ...

How can I get his parents to change thier opinion of me!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6665 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of a year last night told me that his parents really don't like me. He said that they think i'm very needy and a bit physco. They don't like things that I say or things that I do. I love my boyfriend completly to bits and I want to be ...

Bothered that my girl has had a threesome before we dated..

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - I have a question involving threesomes. My girlfriend has told me that she has been in a threesome in which she was with two guys. One of the two guys was just who she was dating at the time and the other his friend. She told me it was great. I told ...

Denied sex, as he looks at porn!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

29 September 2006 (F) - My boyfriend needs to look at porn on a regular basis, and has denied me sex to do so before is this a real problem?...

I trusted him to look after my girlfriend but he made the moves on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

29 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend (she's 17) and I ( I'm 19) have been going out for 10 months, and we're very much in love. Recently, we had a little argument and we decided to just be friends for a bit and see how we go. We're both very keen on motorsport, and ...

I like her, she has a boyfriend...what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - i have a girl at my school that i like but she has got a boyfriend, i cant get over her can you help me with my love problem...

My boyfriends been cheating on me, yet I still love him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - what do i do after my boyfried of nearly 8 yrs ,has cheated on me with his ex?we have 3 kids under 6.had no problems and a fantastic sex life..and he goes off and has sex with her.the affair was going on for two months when i accidently found very ...

We keep breaking up, but still have sex and act like we are still together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hi, um where shud i begin really well i was with this guy for 3 years on and off i met him over the internet when i was 16 and went to meet him, it felt like love at first sight then he left me 4 times through these 3 years and always came back to ...

We broke up but something I said changed his mind...where do I really stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - My bf has been pretty depressed recently, mainly because he has no job but there are other issues too. Last night when we were together he started crying and said he didn't want to drag me down with him and that he couldn't put into the relationship ...

Dirty text messages found on mobile

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - 6 monthes ago my wife had a mobile phone which i didnt know of, when i found it ,it was full of dirty texts she had sent to 2 guys. one of the guys was her friends hubby, her friend was also in on the dirty texts. now i have found she has another ...

I don't want ex, but don't want anyone else to have him either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - I have been broken up with my ex for a few years now and we have remained friends. The problem is, I dont want him but I dont want anyone else to have him either. Help. Is this normal? Any advice?...

My bf is fed up with work, how can I make him feel better ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hi everypne Need a bit of advice My bf is quite pissed off about work at the moment I know its not about me but somethimes he can come accross a bit harsh because of this What should i do Should i try to talk to him about it or leave...

She told me she didnt fancy me, we havent had sex for ages, but said she wants to stay and work it out!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - hi, i have been with my girlfriend now for 1 .5 years, we do have to odd argument here and there.. but other than that wer fine. now i was getting quite worried recently, cuz we aint done the dirty for ages.. months in fact and wer both under 2...

My BF will go in the army for 6 months, Im worried for him and myself!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Hey everyone Im really in need of dome help here My bf is in the army and due to do 6 months in iraq Im terrified. Not only for him but (and i know this sounds selfish but myself) How do i cope without him Its not like i wanna see him every d...

She's a totally different person since she's left for school

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is away at school, and we don't get to see each other that much, only a couple times a month. It seems to me she's distant at times, never returning my calls or AIMs, but she always has time to go out with her roommates to shop, party, ...

He told me that it smelled fishy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - please, i am 15 and my boyfriend has recently just preformed oral sex on me. i feel very embarrassed to say this, but he told me that it smelled a little like some sort of fish or something. he said he could not go on, and that he would give me a ...

Ex husband wants me back but I fear we may run into the same old problems! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 33 year old single mum of 4. I have had 2 failed marriages. My first split up due to physical and mental abuse. My second split up because of constant arguments and trust issues. I have been divorced now for 3 years. I have tri...

When she says she loves me...does she really mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years. We recently slip up for 5 weeks and we have been back together for about 2 months now. It was my fault we split up because i felt trapped! Now we are back together i feel lonley and as if ...

She's went off me! I cant give up, as I know we are meant to be together-I wantto get her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

28 September 2006 (M) - i've just broke up with my girlfriend,we've only been together for 4 months,but ive known her for much longer, in that time we got engaged and even talked about having kids in the next year and a half,but things went bad about 3weeks ago,her best ...

33 and torn between two men, past and present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi All I've posted questions about this "lurve" problem before, but I still need some help... I fell madly in love with a neighbour - we knew each other as friends for 3 months, and then got together. We were both totally smitten with each other....

Is she having second thoughts about us ? Cant understand why all of a sudden she is so distant ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girl is giving me the cold shoulder, why? We have been dating for three months, and things have progressed very fast. We both agreed that the way it was going was fine. I'll be honest, I fell in love with her and we have already been talking ...

Did my wife really stop in the middle of the act because she felt bad, or did she cheat ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - did she cheat on me or not ?? me and my wife have been living together for 12 years, and have we have 2 kids. Our realationship has had its ups and downs over the years, but somehow we have made it work. About 6 months ago we had a huge fight,and...

We act like a couple even after past history of breaking up, things are great, but we are not a couple and she's moving out! What should I do ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR ADVICE Hi there, I am in a right old mess. I was with my gf for four years, lived together for much of it. We had usual ups and downs and had a baby last Xmas. Our ups and downs took a toll on her and her feelings cha...

My girl suffers with depression and bulimia, I support her every step, but she keeps pushing me out!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6645 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - Hello. I broke up with my ex-girlfriend back in December to date a new girl i know from work. It was not a clean break on my part with my ex and if i am being honest i liked the security she was offering me by wanting to stay and sort things out, i ...

Dont know why shes suddenly gone off sex, Im thinking its me, but she says shes not ready anymore!??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - hi, me and my gf have been with each other 9 months, she is 16 (nearly 17) and i am 17, and i am madly in love with her vice versa. we used to have a really good sex life for about 4 months but in the last month or two she has gone off sex and most ...

Boyfriend states I'm too possessive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - My long distance boyfriend of a year recently broke up with me stating I was being too possessive. Now he wants us to talk everyday but not have the "title". He said he still cares about me but he needs to focus on work more and figure out if we are ...

Have I ruined things by sleeping with him early on in the relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am 25 and have just started seeing a guy (few years older) who I really like. We have been seeing each other for about a month now. The last weekend I stayed at his and we slept together for the first time. At first we tried not to ...

Concerned about reps intentions towards my girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend works in an office, reps call weekly to see her. One guy phoned her every day, with some business question. She thought he had a crush on her. Then we got together and he stopped phoning so often. Then one day on a visit he told he...

My girlfriend gets hung up on little issues and blows them into big ordeals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6655 days ago

27 September 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both in love and have been together for about 1 year. We have a great connection and chemistry that everyone strives for. Yet, when issues arise like sharing payments, study places, getting on “her” computer, eating her food, ...