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writes: hi, i have been with my girlfriend now for 1 .5 years, we do have to odd argument here and there.. but other than that wer fine.now i was getting quite worried recently, cuz we aint done the dirty for ages.. months in fact and wer both under 20!and to drop- the big one on me she told me last night that she didnt know how she feels bout me any more and dont think she fancies me.!! great!she stil wants to stay with me and try to work it out but we dont know how ..think shes just bored, but she wont let go cuz she get really jealous when i go to work cuz i have alot female colleagues there who i talk to.any advice would be greatly appreciated..:(
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reader, tux  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 There is always hope... and you have to decide if there is in your relationship.. My relationship has been similiar to yours where we haven't had sex for ages and things seemed to be falling apart.. but recently things have been improving in all aspects including sex.. but it really depends on how she feels about you.. and how you feel about her.
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reader, gizmo123  +, writes (28 September 2006):
I agree with Toria to a certain extent but if you are saying she is jealous then it does show that she doesn't want you to see other people. Perhaps you don't give her enough compliments or pay her enough attention and thats why she has gone off having sex. I know alot of women find it difficult to get in the mood for sex if they are not ready emotionally. Try talking to her a bit more, if you do really like or love her then tell her this and let her know what she means to you, it may be all she needs.
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 I would let her go.
She can't stay with someone she don't even know how you feel about anymore, and you can't be with someone that is unsure of their feelings towards you.
You both need to walk away from the relationship, this is normally what helps people understand and realise their true feelings as you don't know what you've got until it's gone.
Sometimes people hold on to their relationships through habit and fear of letting go of someone thats been a big part of their life for such a long time.
Good luck :o)
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