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writes: I have been in a relationship with my partner for 6 years. We recently slip up for 5 weeks and we have been back together for about 2 months now. It was my fault we split up because i felt trapped! Now we are back together i feel lonley and as if she doesnt love me like she used to. She says she loves me but i feel insecure. We have 2 young children and i love spending time with them all. Is there anything i can do to reassure myself that when she says she loves me she really means it?
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 When you split from her you probably stripped some of her security and trust she had in the relationship as she lost you once and could happen again just as easily.
She is probably wondering how if you love her why you would end it as I know that I would feel that if they loved me they would try to make things work not walk away from things.
But everyone handles things differently and some people need to walk away to clear their head and this doesn't mean they don't love you or not want to be with you just that this is how they handle things, but that still doesn't stop the insecuritys setting in because of you leaving once already and being gone 5 weeks and her possibly feeling that surely it doesn't take 5 weeks to miss someone and realise you made a mistake.
Hope this helps :o)
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