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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...

Dumping on a girlfriend for a man you hardly know!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - My american friend (girl) has been planning to come over for a ages and so I invited her to stay with me for a few nights. She's been texting me on her progress with planning her trip for months and I got my spare room ready for her, booked a ...

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F) - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...

Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on ...

She says she wishes she met me earlier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

23 February 2014 (M) - I have a female friend, She herself greets me and talks to me. She is in a relationship with a guy. But at times she says she wishes she should have met me earlier and that I'm very sweet. She really does try to make an interesting conversation ...

I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could n...

Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...

How do I break off this affair with an engaged colleague?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - Hello, 6 months ago I fell deeply for a man who is 16 years older than me who works in the same building and department as me. He began speaking to me online while I was on holiday from work and we got close chatting and joking and staying up a...

My ex who tried to ruin my relationship has contacted me. I don't want to hurt her, but I don't want to hurt my partner. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

21 February 2014 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in June after being together for a year and a half. We tried being friends but this proved impossible after I started seeing someone four months later. This lead to something of a bitter parting for us. She and her family ...

Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...

I am confused as to which one to choose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Hello Cupids. I have been singlr for over a year and I must say it has not been easy. I have quite a number of guys on my neck right now but I am not interested in some of them because my plan right now is to get into a serious relationship as I ...

Any good stories about threesomes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - Anybody have threesome (MFF in my case) SUCCESS stories? You read about how most relationships fall apart after a threesome but surely this is because it was an attempt to save an already dying marriage? Obviously there would be some that couldn...

I got involved with a male colleague who's not single. Now he's cut me out of his life. How do I move on and forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - Hi all I'm not asking for niceness but I feel extremely low. I stupidly fell for a guy that was attached, we were good friends and he helped me through a lot of personal stuff, he was with a girl he bought a house with. He told everyone at work...

How can he love me and want to share me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I have met a man who seems wonderful in every way. We have an incredible connection on so many levels yet I have a question. He has said to me that if I feel the desire to have sex with another man in his presence he is ok with that. Even turned on ...

Was it wrong to accept an expensive gift from my male gay best friend? I think it's made my boyfriend jealous or uncomfortable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - My gay male best friend whom I have known for a year recently took me out for my birthday. He took me to a restaurant that neither my boyfriend and I can afford, and also gifted me a Burberry scarf ($400 value). I had already known which ...

His best friend doesn't like me, and my boyfriend acts like a jerk when his friend is around

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and a month he moved in back in the summer.im 21 and hes 22. I dont go around his family or his friends because they dont like me his mom doesnt care to much for me for whatever reason I've only met her ...

I just cant forget and get the trust back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - I took my boyfriend back after he cheated on me. the thing is I truely love him and cant let him go. He broke myy heart and i still feel numb. I know it's over between him and the girl, he endedit (she told me- after he ended it as she was angry ...

She knew I liked her, ignored me for a year, and is now engaged to someone else. Why message me now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - So after being ignored by a girl for a year because I told her that I liked her. She has since gotten engaged she sends me a random faceb00k message after a year..."Hi. How you doing?". I reply simply..."I am OK, and u?". She replies..."all good". ...

The guy I've been dating is torn between taking things further with me or his female best friend. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Really need help So since early January I have been seeing this lovely guy, and we both really like each other and everything has been going so well but now just as we are on the verge of becoming boyfriend and girlfriend to one another he has t...

.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...

Uncomfortable with female coworker and husband

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - I'm extremly uncomfortable with my husband and his female coworker/friend. I think she crosses to many boundries and doesn't see it. I'm constantly accusing him of cheating and its causing a wedge between us. He has other female friends that I'm ...

I can't get my boyfriend's ex off my mind..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - So this is my last resort.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while with a little break in between (my choice). And in that break, he got in contact with his ex. He told me he only did it to make me jealous. And it worked.. I started ...

If my boyfriend is the love of my life then why can't I stop thinking of the man I dated while we were broken up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - I really need help and if anyone could help me that would be much appreciated. My story is long and complex but I will try to shorten it and summarize it. Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now on and off. And when I mean off,...

Should we stay 'just good friends' at the expense of my heart, or should I cut & run, even if it hurts both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I'm romantically interested in a guy who isn't over his ex, who left him in extremely abrupt circumstances approx. 4 months ago. We get along brilliantly and he's the first person I've ever truly 'clicked' with in terms of personality. The problem ...

Do you think he might like me? Or do you think he still likes the other girl? Why on Earth did he tell me he's interested in her if he did all of those nice things for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I've know of this guy for 3 years through a girlfriend of mine. I began speaking to him on facebook recently and I mentioned to him I had a recent breakup. As soon as I told him this, he came to see me for the weekend because he said he wanted to ...

How can I get over this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - There is this guy that I've known for a few months . I was in a 3 year relationship with my ex. When he broke it off I was devastated. When I met the new guy, my pain went away and now I can't stop thinking about this jerk.Most would think he's ...

Awkward ending to a night out with the guy I used to date. Should I contact him or did I blow it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

8 February 2014 (F) - Have I blown it with this man, and should I contact him or wait and see if I bump into him? I briefly went out with this man last year. I wouldn't exactly call him an ex, we didn't date for long, and we didn't have sex.He still contacts me from...

My roommate crushed my self-esteem because he picked her over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - I came to London to study a short course. I found a roommate (flatmate as they call them here) for a month out of the three months I'll be here and found him extremely attractive. We chatted a lot before I moved in and it became something a bit ...

I don't like hanging out with my boyfriend's friends and a woman he has history with. How should we deal with this and move forwards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We are both late twenties and I love him with all of my heart. I know he is the one for me and we both have expressed that. I get a little anxious with his friends though. One reason is ...

I'm having an affair and now I feel messed up, numb and lost. Plus worried about my Bf's reaction. How do I get out of this mess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3943 days ago

4 February 2014 (F) - I dont even know where to start. I met me boyfriend travelling.... he came back to my home country but recently we moved back to aus together to start a new life here. What i didnt tell him though was that i know a guy who also lives here. We lost ...

Does she really care for me more than the other guy? Did she just make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

3 February 2014 (M) - Let me wrap things up. I am paranoid so I'll address the girl as "O" , me as "X" and HIM as "Y" So I met "O" 4 months ago in a nightclub. The moment I saw her I knew I wanted to be with that girl, not forever (because i dont like the sound of it)...

Now that my ex is back in my life, I realize I still have feelings for him even though we're both seeing other people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

2 February 2014 (F) - I could really do with some help on this one. Sorry if it's long. About 5 years ago I had a year long relationship with a man. We met on a night out, instantly hit it off and were together for a year. I've never met anyone who made my heart race lik...

I feel that his actions disrespect our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

2 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has been talking to another girl recently and I'm wondering if I should be worried? This is what my boyfriend says happened: she is friends with my boyfriends friends and they met while they were all hanging out one night. Her and m...

Crushing on a coworker but afraid to lose my boyfriend of three years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

1 February 2014 (F) - Hi, Since starting work 5 months ago I have developed a crush on this guy. He likes me too apparently but it'S only ever been implied or said to other people. He's really nice and sweet and when something happens, he's the first person I want to...

I'm uncomfortable with what my girlfriend's male friend messages her on Facebook. How do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

1 February 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been in a relationship for 10 months now with somebody I really feel has real long term potential, and could very well be a life partner. Throughout our time together we have ironed out creases and overcome challenges, including us both ...