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writes: Hello Cupids. I have been singlr for over a year and I must say it has not been easy. I have quite a number of guys on my neck right now but I am not interested in some of them because my plan right now is to get into a serious relationship as I have spent all my time in tacky and shady relationships. The issue at hand right now is I met a guy a few years ago and did a numerology reading for the both of us and i found out we were vey compatible and it even showed marriage. But the guy was very rude at that time and I decided to cut him off. I met him recently through his brother who is my twin sisters ex and we sttrted talking again. I have developed feelings for him and i am sure he still has feelings for me (he told me how he liked me before cut him off and how hard it was for him) and would like to start over again and he is also very careful because he dosent want to lose me again. Of all the guys asking me out I think I could settle for him. I also met a guy when I was in university. He was a spill over student. At first we did not click but all of a sudden like it was magical we blended and were close but I never liked him. All of a sudden, he told me he would like to be my last boyfriend (i was shocked) and all sort of stories. I gave it time thinking he would forget me but his feelings inly became stronger. I invited him recently to.my house and discovered he was a virgin (I am equally a virgin) and he would like to lose it to me. I was scared cos it was more of a promise thing. I disagreed but weve been cuddling ever since but I am yet to tell him I am a virgin. I never imagined my self with him, i even made jest of him to my sister but right now I am confused because i think i might like him in the long run but I fear to date him out of pity(i also did a numerology reading for him and our life path number is not comaptible) as I have done this in the past. He assumes I am his gf bt has doubts cos he knows I really am nt into him and tells me to let him knw where he stands. Another reason why i dont want to let him in is because when he repeated a semester in school, he was in the same program as myself and I have a 'dont date your course mate ' rule. Right now I think I like both guys equally. I enjoy both their companies and dont want to be selfish or double date. Should i.tell him i am a virgin or let him go...should I try dating he other guy who is compatible with me. ..What should i do? I am confused. The compatible guy is older than me with a few years and is not frm a pokygamous home while the other guy is just a yr older dan me. I feel he is too immature cos he tlks abot marriage with me but I knw he has dreams and i dont like dating guys close to my age and he is frm a polygamous home which i detest as i am equally from one and swore never to marry a guy frm such as like poles repel and opposite poles attract. I am nt trying to give anyone of them point, i am confused on which one to go with.[Mod note: question is from Nigeria, added because of references to polygamous homes.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2014): I know you said, you liked both of them equally, but it seems like you like the older guy. You've already found flaws on this new guy. But then, bear in mind, the other guy might get rude again. But honestly, I don't think we can decide for you, you know those guys, its up to you, i'm afraid. Good luck x!
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