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*eautifuldreamer1992
writes:There is this guy that I've known for a few months . I was in a 3 year relationship with my ex. When he broke it off I was devastated. When I met the new guy, my pain went away and now I can't stop thinking about this jerk.Most would think he's unattractive.He's such a jerk.He used to call me or text everyday . It stopped the first time we kissed or I did oral on him. He said that I was great.the communication stopped, however. I felt bad because I thought something was wrong with me.He then called me a week later and told me that he liked me and asked if I wanted to have sex with him because he felt that it was an important part of a relationship. I liked him also and was so naive and wanted to be accepted, that I said yes. After it happened , he told me that he had to be " honest " and that I was the worst person he's ever screwed and that he couldn't feel anything . I was depressed for a few weeks and felt really low. The non communication started again. He then eventually messaged me on his own and apologized for not talking to me and asked if I wanted to have lunch with him. I said sure . The next day he asked if I wanted to screw him again ! He suggested the mall or the park because he lives with his parents.What is this guys deal? We hung out twice after that (no sex) and he stopped talking to me and moved on to this other girl for which I'm sure he legit likes. How can I get over him? I've even seen him steal from the mall and he's told me that he does it all the time , yet I feel obsessed with this guy. Am I insane? I'm 21
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2014): this guy, is a stupid dusty user/player! thats what i think u should focus on. he used you just to have sex. he doesnt deserve you, and you should know this. so, when you start to feel upset that you two are no longer together, just remember this, "he used me for sex. i can find a guy much better then him who's not an asshole after sex!" dont worry, i'm sure you'll get over him. gud luck x!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2014): No your not insane, but he is a nasty abusive person, you don't need to get over him you need to get away from him and fast.
Fill your time up with activities to make you feel good about yourself and improve your own self esteem. Hopefully in time you will look back and thing " big mistake" end of. If he communicates with you again remind tell him as impolitely as you like not to again and no more communication or thought.
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reader, Jaeger12 +, writes (8 February 2014):
you need to delete this jerk out your life
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