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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I ...

You're a lesbian, so leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Essay time- get comfy! I'm a little confused about my best friend and what exactly it is she is up to... See, we have been best friends for 9 years, she's like my right arm and we do everything together pretty much (even work together) I always ...

Two guys with different things to offer, don't know which to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ...

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have ...

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of ...

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...

She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while ...

She has stopped the flirting but still talks to him and I have asked her not to! What can I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am going around with this girl for more than a year. We were best friends for 5 years before we got into this relationship. Although we already having it tough times as her parents are not approved of her relationship with me and are completely ...

In a relationship for 5 years but have feelings for someone else, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've finally decided to ask for help anonymously about my situation as I am completely lost at what to do and perhaps even in how I am thinking. I'm 25year old woman in a serious relationship with another woman who is 2...

How do I ask my boyfriend if we can have a threesome with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx...

If a man is always talking about extra-marital affairs, is this a sign that he might be having one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - What are the chances that a man would be talking about the wrongness of adultery and the mistrust of the ones having an affair, that he would also be having and affair? Would he be talking about it in such bad terms if he is doing it as well?...

Iv stood by this girl in every way, yet now she's back to her ex who used to abuse her physically and emotionally!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months, when all of a sudden she started to ignore me. The relationship was going great, we got along great, we had fun together, nothing was going wrong. She had been ignoring me for about 2 week...

Should I stop talking to him and move on? Or do I need to stop being so dependable and act a bit hard to get instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - This is my first time posting so I'm a little nervous but hopefully I can still explain this properly. Around valentines day weekend my crush suddenly stopped talking to me. For a couple of weeks previous to that his previously long messages...

Should I leave him, sleep with him or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

I thought we had a connection..and I have a girlfriend already..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello people Just need your opinion. I have only worked at my new place for 5 weeks, it's a big retail store. In the last few weeks I have been speaking and really flirting with a girl there. She works in a different part of the store from...

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 1...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I really like this guy at my school and we talk all the time online but he has a really really pretty ex girlfriend who, until recently, he was still in love with, but they still talk everyday and she flirts with him loads even though she doesnt ...

Which guy wants me for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been infatuated with this guy for about 6 months now.. i asked him out twice in the time i liked him, and even though i knew it was wrong, i used to sext (sex text) him, but recently, i moved on, though i still love him. I now fancy another ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

My b/f LDR move back home -- what about the other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I was in love with my boyfriend of two years. But his dad got this promotion and he had to move to a different country. We talked about being in a long distance relationship, but with the time difference it became too hard for us. And we ended it. ...

Male opinion needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw...

Since announcing my engagement, I've noticed some of my female friends have dropped out of the picture. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - I am a male in my late 40s and engaged to be married. I have several male and female friends who I've been friends with for several years. I became engaged this past summer and naturally told all my friends the good news. Since then, I've noticed ...

Why won't my boyfriend's friend talk to me anymore? It's very awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

26 February 2011 (F) - Why is he acting so weird? What’s his problem? My boyfriend’s friend has been acting really weird with me lately. I spent Christmas with him and my boyfriend. We got on really well, but now he hardly says a word to me whenever I am around. ...

Is a threesome a normal fantasy for a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

26 February 2011 (M) - This isn't anything new, but I was wondering if it's "normal" to want to watch your wife have sex with another man? ...

What's the difference between MFM and FMF threesomes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - What's the differences between FMF threesomes and MFM threesomes? Just wondering because the first few months into dating my bf he wanted a 3some with another female, i said no and that if he wanted one then he can dump me and find 2 ladies th...

Are all my ex boyfriend's decisions being controlled by his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - So my ex broke up with me 3 days after valentines day... he says his reason is because he cant make me happy. I'm confused because even though we did argue we seemed to be recently working things out... He proposed to me the day after Valentin...

Should I move back to be with my overseas love, or remain with my love who's here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Alright, this story is a lot of background and not much happening now - I'll try to keep it brief. I moved to this city 4 years ago. Just before I did, I met a man (let's call him Thomas), and left him behind in the other country. We were friends...

I'm not opposed to a threesome but I feel the girl and my man might become a little too interested in each other...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. He is very good looking, in beautiful shape, great eyes, and not to mention well endowed.. So, one night this past summer, we almost had a threesome with a girl he met first, but I ...

He said he has slept with his girlfriend and only likes me as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - hello frinds ..im a 22 year old girl.I will first let you all know about myself AM a nice girl or say the good girl have never dated any guy in my life cos we were taught that husbands gonna be the only person in girls life . i have been a topper in ...

How did my boyfriend move on so fast? I can't even forget him! Please Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) have been dating on and off for a year.The first time we broke up was over me being on vacation and him having trust issues and him wanting me to come home early so we decided we wouldn't talk for awhile .Well ...

My boyfriend and his best friend (a girl) have a ritual where they spend Sunday night together and drink past midnight!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 15months. His best friend is a woman he's known for 15. When they met, she was a lesbian in a long term relationship. They spent their Sunday nights together and started a ritual of making...

Having an affair with a married man who is in love with my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Me and Chris are best friends. We know each other so much and we shared lots of things. and I was attracted to him but then i just kept it to myself. He is married by the way. The story starts here...he fell in love with another girl (SAM) and he ...

Have I pushed her into this other guy's arms by refusing to be friends with her after the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of two years recently separated after living together for 5 months. She immediately began dating a coworker that she had been spending a lot of time with. It's now been two months and they are still together. She tells me she still lo...

We're in financial trouble and have been offered money for sex, should we do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought ...

Is it possible to love two women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - Can a man really love two women? I'm in love with two women and don't know which to choose, its hard one is my baby's-mother. I'm so confused!...

Torn between the two

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - So I have two problems there is this guy.i call him kiddy. he is a huuuuugggeee player but idk its just something about him that makes me wan to keep our relationshiup strong. I want to move on but i know i can't . I will regret it and thats ...

Is his heart open for me or is his ex still in it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - New relationship - 2 1/2 mos. - background he was in a 17 yr relationship, she broke up with him due to different interest/finding herself. Its been 2 yrs and he still has photos of her on his phone and computer. Seems to me that would remind him ...

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...

My friend and my boyfriend are messaging each other, should I break up with him or ignore it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My BF and I are totally in love he even asked me to marry him. I told him I would in a few years and we have planned everything out..............Now his parents are a little iffy about him and me dating. Not only b/c of that but b/c he is two years ...

Why is my married lover cooling off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have had this "friends with benefits" for 4years now but he has been moving the relationship forward on an honest level the last year and a half too top that off i was pregnant 3 times the last pregnancy he seemed upset i didnt go through with the ...

I want a threesome! How do I convince her to do so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - How can I entice my girl into having a threesome with me and another girl?...

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he going on dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hi there, I met this guy about 6 months ago, we are really close friends, he has helped me through so much and I've been there for him whenever he needs help. But lately I've really fallin for him. I've told him my feelings and he's said to me ...

Wife still dependent on my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my partner for 2 years, he is still married and has two children. One child accepts our relationship the other child doesn't. We have lived together for 18 months but he has recently moved into his own place. This is for his ...

Is there a problem here or am I over-reacting in the situation??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I feel confused and very very jealous and the sad part is I never consider me the jealous type. This feeling of insecurity happened a few months ago when a couple of picutres were tagged on my facebook by a friend that they thought were a little ...

Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a ...

Am I separating love and sex? Or just being slutty?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

22 February 2011 (?) - Hi there! Been with my boy for a long time: he'll soon move in with me and we'll get married in a few years. Love him with all my heart and I feel my future is with him. Still, I've recently started an affair with a super seductive and sexy man...