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*ichelleloveeee
writes:I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ago and we both are still in love with another. Everything we do now we are hurting another. Going on dates, hooking up with others, and considering dating other people. Even after we broke up we still talked about getting back together with another after college and living the rest of our lives together. A month after we broke up, on new years eve I met this boy named Richard. He lives in a different state for school but is transferring to my college after the semester (which is in a month and a half) because he grew up here and wants to be with his friends. This boy is the nicest, sweetest boy i have ever met and he makes me happy. To be with my ex i cant talk to richard and i throw that away. But if I ever want anything with richard i have to let go of my ex because I am still in love with him. So my question is.... do i go back to the only boy i have ever loved, made me who i was, the only person i am truly comfy around, made me from nothing into a successful person and got me into college, but has anger issues and i fight with A LOT. Or one of the nicest guys i have ever met, knows how to make me happy, but i dont know if i can ever feel the same love for. HELP!!
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reader, michelleloveeee +, writes (1 March 2011):
michelleloveeee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have met this boy richard. i met him at a party on new years eve and my ex doesnt leave for another six months. But richard visits every months or so and like i said he is moving back in less then two months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2011): It can feel like you have alot going on being very busy in cyberland with decisions to make but the truth is, both these boys live far away and you have no commitment to them and they have none to you so there is no decision to make. Guys you go on dates with will pale in comparison to online virtual people you can fantasize about an ideal relationship with. Honestly, you and your ex didn't work out for a reason and the other boy you haven't met so you aren't even seeing these boys. You might be using online as a distraction b/c hooking up randomly with other boys must leave you feeling empty. Date with integrity and don't have sex too soon and you won't need virtual men to escape to.
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