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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Seven-year friendship being sunk over a guy

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28 February 2010 (F) - Ok, yep back again, yeah more problems... i was really hoping the last time i came here would, you know, be the last time. It's really a continuation of the same situation but much worse now... I really need advice, I'm getting it from lots of ...

My boyfriend keeps getting raunchy pics of a girl he doesn't know. But won't tell her to stop. Am I being controlling?

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28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and we been together for 8 months now and it's the longest relationship he's had. But there's this girl who he doesn't know who she is but texts him. And she sent him a picture and in the picture she took with her cell and she was ...

My girlfriend and her bisexual friend want us to have a threesome but they won't elaborate further

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and i tie each other up during sex. I'm male and when she's fully bonded she loves me rubbing my penis along her body. She recently suggested her female bi sexual friend wants to join in. I am very open to the idea but they wont tell ...

My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another

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28 February 2010 (F) - Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...

Separated, not divorced. Another guy in the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I left my husband 5 years ago but we've never gotten divorced. He doesn't want to and I'm in no hurry. I became involved with another man and we've been living together for 4 of those years. I love him but I don't know about our future. He doesn't ...

Never told me he had a girlfriend but now she's angry. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - This guy I was talking to lived 2 hours away. I just found out he has had a girlfriend from the start. We started talking mid January and he never told me. He kept saying how I am so pretty, and amazing. And so much more. He said he wasnt talking to ...

He has a girlfriend but gets jealous when my friends give me a hug

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27 February 2010 (F) - I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long... A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he love...

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

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27 February 2010 (F) - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........

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27 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on ...

I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve ...

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other ...

My friend confessed to flirting with my crush but she assures me she's over him. True?

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27 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, So, my friend (we can call her suzie not her name though) was over at my house yesterday and we were telling each other secrets. She told me one that was about my crush (we can call him John) she told me that when she went to the same...

He says a lot of girls hit on him. Should I be worried?

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27 February 2010 (F) - So, this guy I love, and he loves me, aren't seeing each other yet, but we act like we are. Anyways, he works at an airport thing, so he see's a lot of younger girls,and by that I mean my age 14. He's 19. But at times he will tell me that these 14 ...

He wants me to wait for him while he 'finishes things' with another girl

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27 February 2010 (F) - I apologise in advance that this is so long! So me and my ex split up 6 months ago. We had been together a year and a bit, and saw each other loads. Towards the end he became distant and I knew there was something up. He confessed he had feeling ...

I am gay, and eveytime my male friend kisses his girlfriend I die a little inside

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27 February 2010 (M) - ok let me introduce my self my name is kevin i am 16 i am a boy and i am gay but no body knows that i fell for this guy damn it he's so hot we're in the same class we're best friends and just my luck he got a girl friend recently and whenever we go ...

I do have feelings for her but the situation is too complicated

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27 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have a lady friend that I have been cool with for awhile now. We had sex about about a month ago. At the same time I had a female that I was talking to nothing serious at all. Before this happened my lady friend was trying to work t...

We were getting on great until I told him I have kids

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27 February 2010 (?) - Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by ...

My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do...

I wonder if a player could stop playing for somebody like me

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26 February 2010 (F) - Hi :) Right, heres the deal, there was a guy I met when I went out with a friend from uni, he lives in her halls, we got talking and just had a spark, you know one of those people who you can just talk to for hours? Well, we did, for around 4 hours ...

My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...

He is bad news, how do I let go!

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26 February 2010 (F) - so hurt scared and angry overall confused. last week i told this guy that i like that i had a dream about him i didnt tell him what the dream was about. im gonna tell him ne time i see him i couldnt tell him then cuz i had to leave the dream is no ...

Same day my boyfriend broke up with me another sent me a lovely gift

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26 February 2010 (F) - right my boyfriend fraser broke up with me today and i`m really upset but i still have feelings for him but 10 mins after he broke up with me a parcel came through the door from a boy called Sean who still loves me and it was a sphere of life which ...

I am jealous to the point of being enraged! How do I control my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i know this is not healthy and i know i shouldnt be bothered but this feeling in me is as though i get stabbed right at the core of my heart everytime i see this girl in my college. this guy and i used to be really close and almost get into ...

Should I waste my time, or am I looking to much into his feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers. I've been on a few dates with a guy who has been in touch with his ex since they split up last March. He says they had an argument a couple of weeks ago and haven't spoken since ...

I don't know whether my girl loves me or not

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25 February 2010 (M) - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me whether she loves me or not. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my ...

Everything I have done has been for him, now I find he is having an affair

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25 February 2010 (F) - I found out very recently that my husband was having an affair for the last 6 months. I am not sure if I can forgive him or ever trust him again. It's not like it was a one time thing. He wasn't even the one to tell me, I had to find out when I ...

My ex is dating somebody else, should I fight for him?

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25 February 2010 (F) - I liked a guy for 2 years and we dated for 6 months. I just recently found out that a montha and a half before we broke up he was talking to the girl he is dating now. I still love him and I don't know what to do. Do I fight for him?...

She is expressing interest in me but already has a boyfriend

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25 February 2010 (M) - Well i got on facebook last week and a girl i used to be friends with before graduation but had a falling out with decided to message me because of a conversation i was having with someone in a post. She more or less admitted she had always had a ...

Should I keep him?

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24 February 2010 (F) - I dated my fiance for 1 year before he proposed on Valentines day last year. Since then there has been internet sex flirtations that I found and he agreed that this was over and he'd never do anything like that again. Since then we have purchased ...

How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?

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24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty ...

I have a long distance guy who I've been talking to for months, but now another guy wants to date me

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24 February 2010 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for about three months now. We are three hours from each other, and used to talk everyday at the beginning. I have recently met this guy who wants to go on a date, and I dont know what to do. ...

I'm fed up of waiting and believing his promises, so much so that I slept with another man

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24 February 2010 (?) - I have a live-in partner for almost 3yrs. he is a married man but they are separated. he has 1 son on his wife and 1 son on me. since of our being together i always helped him to support his child on his wife, i gave him money for the needs of their ...

My friend flirts with my girlfriend!

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24 February 2010 (M) - I have problem. I have a girlfriend and a friend that used to like each other a lot. We all go to the same school. When they liked each other they flirted a lot and talked about everything with each other. They both also had a boyfriend and a ...

Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for her old crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi! I’m really sorry if you get confused by this but I would really appreciate any help! I started a new school for my A-levels in September and I have a friend who is a couple of years below me who also goes to the school called Amy and we are quit...

How do I tell her we are dating? And what do I do if she's not okay with it?

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24 February 2010 (F) - I'm a sophomore in college. At the beginning of my freshman year I met this guy who was cute and really easy to talk to, there was obviously chemistry between us but we both had significant others at the time. We kind of fell out of touch because of ...

I feel guilty about asking my mum to move out when I got married

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23 February 2010 (F) - I wanted my mom to be on her own and get her apartment after I got married. She finally got one and will be moving soon and I feel sad and guilty now about this, I thought that this is what I wanted but now, im not sure. I have mix feelings about ...

I am in love with two brothers and I don't know what to do!

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23 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone please forgive me i am not good in English. l am in love with two brothers.l was actrated to Daniel since 2008 l use to tell my friend how l feel about Daniel so when Daniel asked my friend out she asked me if l was ok with her going o...

What does this comment mean from a random girl on my boyfriend's Facebook wall?

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23 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a distance relationship. This past weekend he went for some homecoming event and after the event he called me and we talked. Just recently a random girl who's on his friend's list leaves this comment on his wall "Just w...

Why does my ex stay in touch with me when he is in love with another girl? Is it possible for him to love both of us at the same time?

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23 February 2010 (F) - I have a question to all. Is it possible for someone to love 2 people at the same time? How do u know if he loves the other more than you or the opposite? I mean, i have nothing more to offer to this guy..nothing. I don't call him, he initiate...

We have been together 2 years but she wont give up her boyfriend because she wants kids of her own

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23 February 2010 (F) - ok i have a girlfriend who also has a boyfriend. me and her have been going out for just about 2 years now and now want her all to myself. i have tried to tell her that i dont want to share her with anyone anymore but she said that she wants k...

I'm in love with my best friend, and he has a girlfriend! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - K so i me this guy met a year ago and i instantly liked him. We started hanging out more and more and i'm actually in love with him now. the problem is he's a complete flirt and he flirts with me and every other girl. people thought we were dating ...

I feel so helpless, my boyfriend has had to leave to continue access with his daughter

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23 February 2010 (F) - This is a difficult one. Me and my partner have recently seperated but still love each other very much. We had been together for 6 years and lived together for four. I have 2 daughters and he has one that lives with his ex. His daughter had been ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex and now she is pregnant

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23 February 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend of about 7 months cheated on my with his ex. they had sex and now she's pregnant . I can honestly say he was my first love so I can't hate him . but I'm mad at him . I can't get over the fact that he cheated . I need advice o...

How do I ease my feelings of guilt?

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23 February 2010 (F) - So,I did some bad things. i been dating my boyfriend for over a year now . .well for a few months i was seeing another guy.what i mean by that is that i would hang out with him. without my bf knowing. and just talk. i didnt think i was cheating bec...

Do I fancy my best friend's boyfriend?

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22 February 2010 (F) - Hiya, I think i fancy my best friends boyfriend. I know nothing will happen as im not that type of person to do anything about it or even tell him or her how i feel. We are really good friends and he seems to flirt back with me, touching my bum, ...

Too close to his secretary for comfort...

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22 February 2010 (F) - I am in the third year of my relationship with my fiance, we've been living together for 2 years and I am now 4 and half months pregnant with our second child. Things went very well with my fiance last year, he qualified, has since been promo...

I have to tell her I love her soon? But how? And do I mention what she said when she was drunk?

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22 February 2010 (M) - So here's the deal. I'm in love with a girl, and a couple of weeks ago whilst blind drunk, I think she professed her love for me. She doesn't remember this, and has a boyfriend. Here's a more detailed explanation: This girl has been my best fri...

He chose her over me! Why do I break down when she speaks about him?

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21 February 2010 (F) - this guy me and my friend like, chose her and when ever she tells me news about what happened between them sometimes im cool with it and somtimes i break down! help!...

Which girl should I pursue?

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21 February 2010 (M) - Which Girl Should I pursue? Girl A I been good friends with this one girl for a long time and we hang out like twice a week (burger king, houses) and we talk on the phone a lot. Only problem: she says she has a boyfriend who has been to jail and...

Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?

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21 February 2010 (F) - ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i ...