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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:K so i me this guy met a year ago and i instantly liked him. We started hanging out more and more and i'm actually in love with him now. the problem is he's a complete flirt and he flirts with me and every other girl. people thought we were dating when we first starting hanging out, but i know he doesn't like me in that way. i don't want to tell him i like him because girls are constantly falling for him and he gets pretty sick of it. i love him so muchh it hurts, and i can't stop thinking about it. but know he has a girlfriend and he says that shes really different and he really likes her. i can't just get over him because were really close friends and it'll be impossible and i can't tell him either. He's so nice, sensitive, and i don't think i'll ever find anyone as good as him. I NEED ADVICE!
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reader, Neanthia  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Girl, I know where you're coming from I secretly loved my best friend for two years, I know how painful it can be. Be patient and a friend to him, but understand that you can't and shouldn't wait forever, I know it doesn't seem like it now but there are other fish in the sea, and maybe one of them will catch your eye. If it's really meant to be given time maybe it will be. Be patient, he may break up with his current girlfriend you never know, but keep an open mind ok hun?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Your still young and later on in life you will find someone better than him. It may take another 10, 20 or even 30 years but you will meet someone who really cares for you.If hes flirting with all the girls then there is a high chance that he will cheat on you if you got involved with him.
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