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writes:I've posted questions before and my love life is still complicated. im sorry if this is long...A guy and i have been talking for a while. I've stated this in my recent questions also. Even though he is in a relationship he still tells me he loves me. Even though he's supposed to be committed to this girl, he kisses me on my forehead, and doesn't want any other guy to touch me. Not even my close friend who is like a brother to me. If my close friend even hugs me, he has to look around to see if the guy is anywhere close because the guy punches him or hits him if he sees him touch me. I'll give an example and excuse my slang, it's just how we natives talk. We normally greet each other with a hug and if the guy is around he pulls my friend away and says "What i tell you bout touchin my woman." then he hits him and pulls me away.Another example is when when my friend hugs me and doesn't know where the guy is. my friend hugs me and my bff who is a girl says "You bettas watch out for an annonymous person comes out of nowhere and punch you up." and my friend stop hugging me. It's feels good to know that he still wants me and doesn't want any other guy to touch me, but i don't know if he wonders how i feel. He told me that his current girlfriend was only a "spa/Heartstring (close friend who he cares about)", but i don't want him to like anyone or be with anyone either. I dont even like the that someother girl in school likes him and i've told him that. I told him to tell her to back off and she did. but now i want him to break up with his current girlfriend and be with me. but not in a relationship wise thing. i Dont know what to do and i miss him being single because i know he wanted me only. Should i wait on him? should i tell him i want him to break up with his girlfriend? Should i tell him anything? Before he got a girlfriend on sunday we use to be flirting quite alot and kissed, hugged and squeezed me. I want him to be single but i don't know if i should say anything. He told me that he doesn't want me to date anyone, but should i tell him the same?
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 fair is fair he wants you you want him then be an item.. bust as far as i can see he wants the best of both worlds.. tell him that if he wants you then you are the only gf he will need otherwise you want to be friends only! you shouldnt give up your best friends for him their your friends and good friends are hard to come by so be careful how you tread. good luck aphex hope that helps
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reader, Sharon1111  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 I think this guy is a two timing, dishonest guy, and a physical bully too if he is the one getting physical (I got confused about that). Do you want that?
I'm thinking you must be feeling proud to get his attention, but surely you can get a better, and available guy, if not now, later? You might even be chasing away a great guy by hanging out with this one.
Will you feel good about yourself if you break up his relationship with his girlfriend? Assuming you could. But, if you could, what makes you think he'd be faithful to you?
Perhaps for right now it'd be best if you work on getting a great life going for yourself & work on feeling proud of yourself as you are, whoever says so or not.
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