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writes:Well i got on facebook last week and a girl i used to be friends with before graduation but had a falling out with decided to message me because of a conversation i was having with someone in a post. She more or less admitted she had always had a lot of respect for me and she always had a major crush on me. This blind sided me because she always was really mean to me for whatever reason except for a rare occasion here and their. Well she has been talking to me over texting, phone, etc and she was still interested in dating. Well we flirted talk a lot etc and everything seems to be fine and things point to this might actually work out unlike most girls that like me. Well she has a boyfriend already. She for whatever reason decided hey lets ignore he exists when first flirting with me and saying you really like me and still do after a week of talking. Well she isnt sure if she wants or can leave her boyfriend. She just cant decide which of us she likes better i think we both have majore pro's and cons and its really starting to wear at my emotions. Im a little jealous of her talking o her boyfriend because ive been interested in her since high school and still am. I dont know if i should wait a week and see if she picks me and him but at this point its so depressing that i dont know if its better i wait or just cut it off before i get any more involved. Should i wait and and see or just say im no longer interested because she cant decide?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell before any answers were posted the situation solved itself. she chose her current boyfriend because she was afraid to loose him as a friend. Love that logic, get involved and then decide that.
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reader, rhian.  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 The girl probabaly was horrible to you because she fancied you, ive never really understood why people do that but it seems to be true. However, she shouldnt be talking about having a realtionship with you when she is already involved in one. If you dont want to be lead on, tell her to choose between you and her current boyfriend, if she really likes you, she will end her current relationship
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2010):
Say you're not interested. This is a girl who doesn't know what she wants at all, and will most likely hurt you. Cut it off now before you get really hurt.
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