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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel so lost and don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - Hi...I'm in such a mess right now that I honestly don't know how to solve....2 years ago I was in a relationship with a guy that I loved very much...we had problems and I came to the conclusion that it was best to call it a day after 4 years...BIG ...

How do I get over the break up of my first relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

31 March 2015 (M) - I was with my ex girlfriend for 6 months and about 4 months ago to this day we broke up. She broke up with me because she didn't want to be held down or this committed at this age (she's 17 I'm a few months older so I'm 18). I saw in one of her chat...

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on herea...

My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so ...

Help me to move on after the he violated my trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Recently I split with my partner of 2.5 years. We split last August for 3 months and reconciled in October under the circumstance that we were completely honest about what had happened since we split, had it all out cards on the tables I completely ...

My ex wants to take our baby away for his visits and I'm not comfortable with this. Do I have a say in the matter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi, My ex and I split up while I was pregnant and now he sees our son (9 weeks old) for about 2 hours a week at my house. He has never done a night feed alone and has never looked after him without supervision. He is saying he wants to take me...

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she s...

Divorced for 2 years now. Have an amazing new guy in my life. So why can't I deal with dating and decision making? What is wrong that I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I got divorced 2 years ago, I wanted it and my ex didn't. He absolutely did nothing but just crying for 1 year. I couldn't take his family making decisions for us any more. He is 49 I am 34. It's been 2 years now and I feel extremely guilty...

Why is my ex letting me know that she's stalking my social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - I recently broke up with my gf of about a year. Throughout the relationship she was frequently insecure and jealous, but when she wasn't her love was like the sun. Eventually her jealously and insecurities made her angry, mean, and distrustful ...

I'm back with my ex, who I love, but how do I tell my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - so here goes...im 24. i have been off and on with my bf for 3 years. i give up when things get hard. he has been trying to get a good career for a while so he has moved a lot. we broke up 2 years ago and had no contact. he messaged me a week ago and ...

I have mixed feelings and don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for almost 2 years and have been sort of watching him. I have him under my phone plan so I monitor his calls and texts. He friended an ex on FB and that didn't sit too well with me so we had a fight. He refused to ...

So confused. Can you help clarify what to do? my rebound Gf has been very good to me. My ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've gotten myself into a horrible bind. The love of my life and I split up in November. While on the rebound, I made a poor, quick decision to jump into another relationship while I was still hurting over my ex. I wound up really enjoying ...

She told me she wasn't going to stay in touch with the ex, but now she is going to visit him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - My gf left her Facebook acc open in my cellphone. I read a conversation where she tells her exbf in brazil she is gonna go visit him. We've been together for almost 6 months. I talked to her about this when we went out first and she said she wasnt ...

A friend told me he loves me, but I still feel pain from my ex boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3394 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, I fear having a new love story with someone who seems to be worth giving the chance. long story short, i gave my everything to my 2 and a half year old boy friend. i loved him, and maybe still love him, feared him and simply wante...

Don't want to lose my friend. Yet what is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

26 March 2015 (M) - I'll just go straight to the question. What is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend? I mean they are no longer together for 3years now. We both want to go for it,i can bet on that but its just as if we should never cross. She has been m...

Do I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't please me and I still have feelings for my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - hi into 25 years of age and I have problem of still having feelings for the father of my child yet I'm in a relationship and it's been going on for 3 years now. my current boyfriend doesn't give me pleasure in bad he ejaculate quickly ,he gets tir...

Does she remember the romantic times we shared .. I still miss her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

25 March 2015 (M) - Hello,well it's been a while, since, I posted anything,it's been about three years now, an I still think about my ex, it only lasted three months, I thought it was great. I treated her like an angle, her ex before me, use to beat her, treated her ...

My girlfriend thinks I'm lying and hiding things from her about the past and I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

25 March 2015 (M) - Hi there everyone. Thanks for checking out my post. I really appreciate it. So rightt. To the question. So me and my girlfriend are kind of being silent from each other. All of this is just too confusing so bear with me. She was an ex of...

I think my ex used a fake profile to get to talk to me again. I don't like what he did but I want to talk to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Right here goes..... very long story short My ex boyfriend decided to contact me out of the blue after being broken up for 3 years saying he was sorry and he loved me and wanted me back. I told him I was already in a relationship with someone els...

Is there any way to stop the feeling for my ex? I'm married now and happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3519 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Hay this is a bit of a weird one, I've split from my exboyfriend of 5 years, about 4 years ago and not spoken to him since as it was a bad break up. I'm now happly married with some one else and all settled down trying for a baby, but recently I've ...

I'm dating someone new but missing my ex and I'm so confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - This is a very confused girl dont have any idea what she wants. I broke up with my 3 years boyfriend last August 3 days after his b day(not something i'm proud of). Anyways, we had so much problems in our relationship and used to fight all the ti...

Twelve days after the break up. Please tell me it gets better.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - 12 days post BU and I feel so terrible. I broke it off with him, after being together almost 5 years. He was mistreating me and just wasn't good for me in any way. I went straight into blocking/deleting him from everywhere and have been NC since. ...

My gf is upset with me for talking to my ex

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

24 March 2015 (M) - Me and my exs relationship ended almost 3 years ago and I've been with my now gf for 2 years. My ex gf messaged me on Facebook last Saturday night (we had not spoken for like 8 months prior to this, we don't speak hardly at all to be honest). We ...

What percentage of women think about another man or an ex partner while having sex with their husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

23 March 2015 (M) - What percentage of women think about another man or an ex partner why having sex with there husband...

Sexual attraction or a feeling of being cared for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Okay cupids, I need your help! Is sexual attraction important in a relationship? I mean, we should all fancy our boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands/wives, yes? Isn't that what attracted us to them in the first place?! I was with my ex boyfrien...

I want to check my ex's facebook all the time! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Ok my ex cheated on me like 2 months ago and left prior to that I would always get on his fb no we are over and i am heartbroken and when I have nothing to do I get the urge to check his Facebook by hacking it because its so easy but I know its not ...

Is it wrong if we still see an EX as an IDEAL partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

23 March 2015 (M) - Is it wrong if we still see an EX as an IDEAL partner? Last fall I had a mundane breakup, not too dramatic or over the top, just a little saddening. This girl had very attractive characteristics like being level headed and excelling at com...

There are constant rumors of my boyfriend cheating. Not sure what to believe

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - Everyone keeps telling me that my boyfriend cheats on me whenever he goes back to his hometown or away from the city we live (he works away at least once a month) but they never have any proof and I don't want to believe them but there is something ...

My partner puts his ex and a child that isn't his before our family and I'm feeling resentful about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

21 March 2015 (F) - I'd like some advice on how to stop feeling so negative towards a child. I know im a horrible person for feeling this way, honestly you have no idea how low I'm feeling so I'm not looking for insults or negative comments regarding this, I'm coming ...

I think he is keeping secrets about his ex from me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - We have been together 5 years and I know he is in contact with his ex-he says to discuss kids. I know she wants him back. I also know they text and call each other frequently. I also know he deletes his texts from her and most likely, the record of ...

Is it normal to be so afraid to think about remarriage after divorce? Will my ex control things still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - I got divorce last year and seperated for 2.5 years before that. I was searching online as no one from my family or friends are divorced. I wanted to see how the second marriage works when you have a child, my daughter is 8 years old. What I le...

How can I get over someone I have to see everyday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - In September I started a new course at university. From the very first meeting there was a guy I clicked with. Within a week he'd asked me out on a date and we began seeing each other. As well as seeing each other every day, we'd spent most evenings ...

Do I fight for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - So basically, I met the love of my life 3 years ago, we are a same sex couple, I am 34 she is 30, we married in May 2014, we lived together for 2 and a half years, altogether. We fell in live on our 1st date. Then 8 months into our marriage she ...

Love, baby daddy drama, a blossoming friendship! What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

17 March 2015 (M) - OK so weve started out as friends I'm 23 she's 21. She does have 2 kids and a baby daddy they're kind of falling out lately he's kind of abusive, verbal, physical etc.lately we've been hanging out and she's been hugging me alot. Sitting closer to ...

He broke my heart and I can't trust him, but I really want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - So I need help getting over my ex, we split up last summer after being together for just over a year as i found out that he had been cheating on me after several times after i had already forgiven him for doing it once before. And the thing that ...

Is it wise to date this guy whose ex is lurking in the background?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid friends, Your advice has always been invaluable to me. A guy that I used to bump into after work ( we used to say hello) found me on facebook and then asked me to go out. I went out with him after work on Tuesday and I really liked h...

How can I overcome my sexual insecurities about the other guy she had sex with? we are back together after a break and I do love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Hello ! I really need help with this question, because I'm really starting to feel as if I'm falling apart and can't calm myself. I have been with my fiancee for about 5 years, 9 months ago we broke up when I went to work in another town and we d...

I asked my wife to stop contacting her old boyfriend but she didn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

14 March 2015 (M) - A few years ago my wife got in touch with an old boyfriend through the wonders of Facebook. Actually, he sought her out. There some some contact through Facebook which led to e-mail which led to phone calls (always from him but my wife gave him...

Did she unblock me to show me she's in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

14 March 2015 (M) - My ex recently unblocked me which is not uncommon as she has blocked/unblocked me in the past. Wewere together for a few yrs and it ended pretty messy. Bat shit crazy. Weve been split for a few years now. This time I thought she was going to msg...

Why does she want me to take her to Prom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

13 March 2015 (M) - I'm confused, so their is this girl at my school I like. She is actually a party girl and the word is she gets around. A few months ago I went out on a date with her and everything went good in my opinion. Idrove to her house met her mom and ...

My bf is acting weirder around me...idk why

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Im starting to feel like my boyfriend doesn't like me anymore. We've been together for almost ten months now, and like we just don't really hang out that much. My friends are always on my case, saying that Im never the one to go over to him..but he ...

Confused and feeling lonely - not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

12 March 2015 (F) - I've been seeing a guy, hes older than me (17 years older). We met at work a while ago, I liked him after a few weeks of knowing him. He had been in a serious relationship which ended with two kids (but they're not married) and they ended the ...

Do I just stay quiet or do I say something about my brother in law's visits to his ex, for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

10 March 2015 (M) - My brother in law keeps going over to sleep with his ex. I don't know what to say to get through to him! She is trouble, which is putting it lightly, and he only goes over to her after he's been drinking. He acts as if this is just a booty call, ...

This not wanting tomove on is not healthy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

9 March 2015 (F) - Okay, where to even begin... 3 years ago I split up with a guy I had been seeing for 8 months. It wasn't official but we were only dating each other. Anyhow, he broke things off after my friend told him (without my knowledge) he needed to commit to ...

Would a FWB help me to get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

9 March 2015 (F) - My heart is broken. 4 months ago the man I thought to be the love of my life broke up with me due to several reasons (not important for the topic). I'm still in love somehow, I miss him, but I know 100% it's not possible to get him back. Now I met a ...

What do I tell my young daughter about her father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

7 March 2015 (F) - My 2yr old daughter has said to me today wheres daddy after watching all programs that involve a daddy in it, I kinda just brushed it off ?? She's never been in contact with her dad and he doesn't want anything to do with her, my problem is I now...

My ex is in a relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

7 March 2015 (M) - My ex is in a relationship, the first I know of since we broke up over 5 years ago. Would it be ok to msg her? She did tell me not to msg her again but she use to say things like this all the time when she got pissed of at me. So I haven't msged ...

Trust is in tatters. He wants me to leave. What can I do? It was not my fault that an ex sent me photos.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

7 March 2015 (F) - When I met my boyfriend I told him that a couple of years ago I got involved with a married man, but that I saw my error and nothing come of it. Today when I got home my boyfriend sent his daughter out and said that we needed to talk in private....

How do I move on from his lies? We loved each other, yet now he's married another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

6 March 2015 (F) - I was in love with a guy. We both loved each other but unfortunately he got married with some other girl from his locality as He told me that his parents arranged his marriage already and he is sorry because he can't do anything.He can't go against ...

Do I tell my ex that I slept with 2 guys while we we broken up? I know he'll hold it against me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

6 March 2015 (F) - My ex and I have now been broken up for a year. He moved to a different state for a job which prompted a lot of arguing between us so we broke it off. We've kept in close contact and although we've both dated multiple people, we've recently admitted ...