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female
age
30-35,
*adyInLove2
writes:Dear cupid,I fear having a new love story with someone who seems to be worth giving the chance.long story short, i gave my everything to my 2 and a half year old boy friend. i loved him, and maybe still love him, feared him and simply wanted to satisfy any request what ever it was, including sex.he cheated on me several times, until a 5 months ago i had enough, felt used, and felt he did not deserve any of my sacrifices.he promised 3 years ago to marry me, and did not work hard enough to make that promise true.the problem is i miss him, physically more than emotionally most of the time,the hugs, the comfort i felt when i was near him,and i can not imagine the touch of any one else on my skin.also, he i am afraid to love anyone else in fear that they will hurt me too.my friend revealed that he loves me, he knows every part of the ex's story, and i know how loyal and appropriate he is to me, yet i cry whenever i think of him hugging me, kissing my lip, dancing with me.my heart is simply in pain, with or without my ex's present in my life.
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reader, ladyInLove2 +, writes (29 July 2015):
ladyInLove2 is verified as being by the original poster of the question update:
gave my friend a chance, he turned out to be just like any other guy i have dated, he changed after he felt that he now means something important to me, he tried to change some aspects in my life.
so what i did was exclude my self from his life, i don't want to tolerate a bad relationship, i avoided a relationship-crises, or at least that is what i am hoping to do.
thank you again for your help.
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reader, ladyInLove2 +, writes (27 March 2015):
ladyInLove2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you Mr. Pegasos,
and excuse my many mistakes.
loving myself is exactly why i feel my friend is worth giving a chance, he makes me feel important and have reverted the bad effect on my self esteem that the ex added.
thank you again for you time
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reader, Pegasos  +, writes (27 March 2015):
First you need to search for, find and make peace with yourself. Then you should realize, in love, there is no telling. You gotta risk and try to be a good game. Believe me, you will probably get your heart broken many times before you find the one.
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