A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is a very confused girl dont have any idea what she wants.I broke up with my 3 years boyfriend last August 3 days after his b day(not something i'm proud of). Anyways, we had so much problems in our relationship and used to fight all the time. We broke up so many time before and used to make up every time but the last time i couldnt do it anymore.He begged me for over a month and promised me to change himself but all i did was ignore him. I ddidnt listen even once because I was tired of our every day fights and also my family had problems with this guy.So anyways after like a month or 2 my ex got into a relationship with a girl which i came to know that his family and friends forced him to do.Its been few days that i feel bad for what i did. When we broke up he was studying abroad and he left his studies and came back because of that. These days i miss the him a lot. I miss the first days of our relationship and the days he was my bff before we got into a relationship.I also have this guy I'm kind of dating right now. I like him a lot but there is something that haunts me. I'm not sure whether its because i cant stand anyone having a bad feeling about me or is it because i love my ex and i want him back.I dont even know how to express what m going through right now. Can someone please help me..I really need some one to talk.
View related questions:
broke up, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah maybe your are right. i need to make peace with myself and him. Thanks :)
A
male
reader, Pegasos  +, writes (27 March 2015):
1. You broke up with him because you, in your mind) believed you had to do it. You convinced yourself for whatever reasons, took a final decision and acted. Good for you.2. You re-evaluated the situation once and decided to keep your Word to yourself. Awesome.3. Don't create little unreal worlds and situations in your head, everyone does what they believe is right for them and should be respected. (from another point of view, forcing someone into a relationship is illegal in most countries and religions, you could talk to him about it or call the authorities).4. Those days will never come back, even if you were to continue your relationship, it would be different, you would be different, the entire world would be different and everything would continue to change. Wake up.5. Make peace with yourself by accepting who you were then and who you are now, then apologize in a not-romantic way.:)
...............................
|
