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writes:My ex recently unblocked me which is not uncommon as she has blocked/unblocked me in the past. Wewere together for a few yrs and it ended pretty messy. Bat shit crazy. Weve been split for a few years now.This time I thought she was going to msg me which I was deciding if I would respond but after a while I saw that she added in a relationship.Did she block me just to show that? Lol. I find this strange. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (17 March 2015):
 Either she specifically wants you to know she's in a relationship or she's simply okay with you knowing.
I assume you're talking about Facebook. Do you still have each other on your friends list? If so, why? If things are over, and if they ended that badly, wouldn't it be a good idea for both of you to cut ties once and for all?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 March 2015):
 My guess, yes. It's a neener neener thing.
But If I were you, I'd remove her and block her. That way she won't be on your thought as much. Why keep her around? Even on Facebook?
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reader, Aemita  +, writes (14 March 2015):
 Yes, that's exactly what she did.
What does strike me though... why on earth are you still hung up on her? More so, you said the relationship ended on "bat shit crazy" terms. It seems like you're having trouble to move on. Obviously she already did. You would do yourself a (huge) favour, if you'd do the same.
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (14 March 2015):
It depends how long ago you broke up and how long she blocked you. On some social networking sites the block only lasts a set period of time before it needs to be renewed or it automatically lapses.
I found that out the hard way after I blocked a boyfriend only to find he was unblocked 6 months later and not by me.
It could be your ex doesn't know about this
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2015): My ex used to do the same thing, he would unblock/block me all the time show his relationship status which was irritating. I ended up blocking him and moved on with my life. Are you still interested in her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2015): Yes, she did! Why would you think otherwise? If a relationship ended messy, "bat shit crazy" as you put it; do you think she was having warm and fuzzy feelings? It was to notify you, and probably all of her exes; that she is now in a new relationship. Most unnecessary, but the point is to rub it in.
I find it strange that you still follow-up on someone you broke-up with years ago in a messy way.
Block her, delete her from memory, and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2015): Or maybe it has nothing to do with you.
Either way-why do you care? Is not super-important to you, is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2015): Hunch?
Most likely yes.
Especially if you were considering whether to talk to her or not... Maybe she just wanted to rub your nose in it?
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