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writes:hi into 25 years of age and I have problem of still having feelings for the father of my child yet I'm in a relationship and it's been going on for 3 years now. my current boyfriend doesn't give me pleasure in bad he ejaculate quickly ,he gets tired very fast , and he doesn't want to introduce me to his family , he is to much of that person who's backbone are his family. I love him but it's just not working, he doesn't even care about my son just to try and make me happy, he is against my church , I'm starting to wonder if he loves or he just wants sex from me because that's all he cares about when he say he misses me he means he misses my cookie .We don't spend time talking and cuddling no that only happens once in a blue moon . now lately I've been thinking about my baby daddy and now I think I strongly have feelings for him , yes the way we end things was inappropriate I used to get angry at him because he didn't want to come spend time with a child ,saying his afraid of my dad etc. but we were still young back than we both didn't think straight and we both had to follow what our family tells us to. But honestly I still have deep love for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2015): It's a no-brainer. Dump your current boyfriend. He's terrible. Your current and your ex run neck and neck, in the loser-department!
Your ex won't come see his own child; because he's afraid of your father? Are you kidding me? Truth be told, he wants nothing to do with you, nor the child.
SERIOUSLY!!!
Nobody can keep a real father away from his kid(s)! If he loved that child, he would defy even the law to see his offspring. Keep the child-support check coming, and stay away from that loser. All you need from him is the check in the mail on time, and as court-ordered.
You don't need either of them.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 March 2015):
 There are ways to "fix" premature ejaculation if that's the big reason to want to leave the present BF. but it sounds to me you are unsure if either is right for you.Might as well flip a coin. The father would be the fall back position so your child could have a father.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 March 2015):
 you need to leave the current boyfriend because you are not happy with him or the way he treats you. that's fine.
but you do not need to go back to the father of your child either...
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