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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My wedding is a few weeks away and his ex wife and adult daughters are still causing problems.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3133 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I have written in before about my fiance's ex wife and 3 adult girls abusive behavior and was given advice that we followed and basically blocked them off of facebook, and just continued living our lives. My fiance was able to reconnect with a ...

Sleeping with the ex but I'm demanding more respect

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Just to start off, I'm a 30 yr old female and single. For the past two years I've been sleeping with my ex (37). He took my virginity exactly 15 yrs ago and we always been hooking up on and off. I have been celibate since 2008 due to low self esteem ...

I've reconnected with the ex but he's much different now. Will there be a rainbow after the storm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

26 February 2015 (F) - Hello and thanks I dated a guy 15 years ago and we reconnected. Our relationship was great back then we got along well, he was very good to me, and we loved eachother very much. He was kind, sweet and funny. WE were both young and we mutually deci...

I don't think my wife should be communicating with an ex, she doesn't agree!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Unfortunately I ignored her for much of that time and we drifted apart. We recently rekindled our marriage but I innocently found something on her Facebook. I went to log in to my Facebook but it was ...

This man doesn't want to deal with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3548 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...

My sister wants to go out with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - Hey im ayden and im a 16 year old girl and Ive got a problem. My problem Is that I was with my beyfriend for a whole year and we broke up around 7 months ago.he is a year older than me and my sister is two years older than me and recently she told ...

Do I swallow my pride and text him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

23 February 2015 (?) - Up until last Friday I was dating a guy for nearly 2 month, I really liked him but on that friday he went on a night out with his ex , we argued and he said it was innocent they were only talking about something. But why not just speak over text or ...

Husband has apologised and wants me back, but I haven't changed since I left him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - I left my husband because he had a problem with my body and would make comments. Mainly about loose skin ( dr says its as good as it will ever be again short of surgery which I'm not doing ) from babies and my breasts sagging , the general aging ...

Aside from telling his ex to really stop it, what else can we do to make stop calling him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I've posted here before about my boyfriend's ex who has been contacting him on a regular basis. It started with her grandmother being in the hospital in October, then her grandmother's passing in November - my boyfrien...

I have trouble having an orgasm during sex. Can this be fixed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My problem is with climaxing, Ive only ever orgasm-ed with my ex of five years, we broke up a few years ago, I havent been able to with any men before or after him regardless of what they did oral or hands, by myself I have no issue but I always ...

Online stalking obsession

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - Hi there, I have a major issue thats been controlling my life, I have a very bad habit of internet stalking people, my boyfriends ex, friends of friends, my ex and his new gf, its like an addiction, it think its interesting watching peoples...

How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...

I fell for the cousin of a girl who rejected me two years ago.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

15 February 2015 (M) - Hello dearcupids, I have just experienced a weird experience. So I would love to hear your opinions. I met a girl yesterday during a journey. She was sitting next to me in the bus. We kept talking the most of the time during the journey. I thin...

She's falling for my ex-crush. How can I deal with this and not lose friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Hey guys, so I'm in a pretty complicated spot here. My best friend and I are very close, but them last week something happened. She's falling head over heels in love with my ex-crush. I have a boyfriend, yes, but she feels like she shouldn't go...

Do women really regret their sexual past?

This question has 67 answers - newest was posted 2605 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - This question goes out to the ladies and girls out there. Do you regret your sexual past especially when you've only dated losers then finally one day meet the man of your dreams and you wished he was your first or that you had met him in the past?...

I have resentful feelings for my wife lying about her past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3558 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further. A ...

What did I do wrong, she knows I love and want to marry her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - Hi all, I'd like to share my problem and I need your help. I'm not going to tell the 8 years worth of story so I'll try to keep this very short. Okay so me and my ex got back together after 6 years. I broke it off due to unavoidable circumsta...

Do I reach out to my abusive ex because his dad died?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

13 February 2015 (F) - I dated a guy for over a year when I was 17 and he turned out to be fairly abusive (nothing physical but verbal abuse and manipulation as well as cheating). After I broke up with him, things went majorly downhill: he told people horrible lies about ...

Is online flirting cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful person. He is 10 years older than me and I love the fact that he is more experienced and worldly wise than I am. I met him on facebook and we hit it off immediately. We are both abroad away from our families ...

Does anyone else have this issue where your significant other confuses you with what experiences he had in the past with his ex-wife or ex-girlfriends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I've been engaged to my fiance for three years. He is divorced with grown children. He is always getting past events from his life mixed up with our current ones. One day he turned to me and asked How long has it been since we went to this st...

I'm 31, alone, I spent almost two years trying to move on but my ex is happy in a new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - It's been 2 years after my ex broke up with me.I was desperate and decided to move overseas and started a new life. My ex who has been in a relationship with someone else for at least 1 and 1/2 years contacted me a couple of times after I left home, ...

She insisted on condoms but should I still get checked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

12 February 2015 (M) - I had a fling with a girl ssix months ago, and we only had sex three times. We always used a condom, she was very insistent on this and even had them with her. Lately ive learned she has a bad reputation and has slept with a lot of people. I am ...

I cry everyday and want to be happy again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3561 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over two years now. He is 25 and I am 26. Our relationship was long-distance for about eight months before he moved across the country to be with me. Everything about...

How do I turn things around? I feel like an unloveable loser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - I feel like a massive loser and I'm starting to panic that my life will never be normal. I just turned thirty and I'd imagined all these stupid things that would have happened by now. I've recently come out of a horrible relationship. My ...

Could my boyfriend have fathered a child with his married ex? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3562 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - Hey guys, could really use some advice. So my boyfriend had an affair with this girl a few years ago, before he and I were dating. She was a girl he had dated in his 20's. But then she got married to someone else and they had slept together and...

Barely a month together. Yet his ex still visits his parents? What can I do about this situation, because I do love him?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

10 February 2015 (F) - hello, really bothered about this. My bf and I have been dating for barely one month now. he told me about his ex who he dated for about two years but said he is no longer interested in her because her dad doesn't seem to like him and some other r...

Marriage probems and my sister interferring did not help. How can I get over this, and move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - What should I do? My sister has meddled in my relationships for years including my marriage. She became his confidant and he ran to her with loads of stories, none of them good for years. My marriage came to an end, not because of her, but her inte...

Should I have been tested for chlamydia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - Hi all, I'd like some advice please. I am currently trying for a baby for a year and I have made an appointment with my OB gyne and my husband has already done a semen analysis, and we will find out the results at the appointment. Anyhow, I do a ...

My wife gave her ex boyfriend better sex than she gives me!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

9 February 2015 (M) - I have asked my wife for 10 years to do the same sex acts that she did with her ex boyfriend but she refuses. She had sex with him daily and with me 3 times a month. I feel hurt and inferior to him. Is it ok that she denies me but wanted to ...

Pregnant from a one night stand and he has gone back to his ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

9 February 2015 (F) - Hi all I need some none judgemental advice!I am 22 and recently had a one night stand with a guy I barely know and stupidly we didn't use protection I am on the pill but recently just switched. Anyway I am now pregnant and petrified and not even ...

Realised I have still feelings for my married crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - I had what can be called an emotional affair with a married man for two years... very strong feelings on my side, (sexual) flirting from his side and even some love confessions (feelings). I guess we were both obsessed with each other. We see ...

I am happy for my sister but very sad for me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - Before I start, I'd just like to say that I'm very happy for my sister and this isn't about her in any way. It's about me. So on December 23rd just past, I ended my long term relationship because he just wouldn't commit to me. I'm now a month...

She says I have lost her trust, I say she is being over dramatic!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

8 February 2015 (M) - my girlfriend says I've lost her trust and she wants to end things but I think she's just being over dramatic and refusing to give me another chance. My old flame called me to say could we be friends again so I met her for a drink didn't tell my gf ...

They hate me but love his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3565 days ago

8 February 2015 (F) - I think my relationship could be coming to an end because of his parents! theyve made it crystal clear that they hate me, yet his ex, who treated him appallingly, they love and still have her round for dinner from time to time! His ex cheated ...

What can I do? He wants to still see me, but he doesn’t want to tell

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for a year we were wonderful together... But things started getting crazy. We broke up three months ago but still we were living together. He started talking to this girl and ended things completely with m...

I don't like my boyfriend going to his ex's house!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, my bf has 3 kids wit his ex. The youngest is only 5 months. They were split up while she was pregnant. Her choice as well as his. Sometimes he goes to the house to look after the kids. He says she goes out while he is there. I am not ...

Has anyone else suffered with trust issues that they just can't overcome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

7 February 2015 (F) - Has anyone else suffered with trust issues that they just can't overcome? I'm 34 and had 3 long term boyfriends, the first of which cheated on me twice with the same girl. The second cheated on me numerous times throughout the relationship and the ...

Is this a red flag and how do I deal with it? I don't want to become the "rebound" guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

6 February 2015 (M) - Hey everyone, I met a really nice girl about 2 weeks ago and we had our first date yesterday. She is the girl-next door type, sweet and cute. I have to say I really like her. She is also a very interesting person with quite some knowledge. We...

Why does my ex want to hold on to me he has a woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

6 February 2015 (F) - Dear cupid,my ex and I broke up years ago we talk from time to time now he has a woman but he wants to say in conversation with me I told him we have nothing to talk about.He told me he wants to to keep in contact just in case his relationship falls ...

His relationship isnt going well. Do I tell ex how I feel or wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3567 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - I broke up with my ex boyfriend (around 3 years ago), he tried to get back with me for ages but I was adamant I wanted to move on...Hes now been with his current girlfriend for around 2 years, and they live together. I realised last year I still lo...

My fiance's ex will not allow their children to be in our wedding

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

5 February 2015 (F) - Dear all Following a previous post, again I need some advice on dealing with a highly sensitive issue regarding my future lovely step children. We are getting married this year and they are supposed to be my flower girl and usher to which t...

I'm jealous of my partner being in touch with her ex-partner's child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3564 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - hi im a gay woman in my 30s and my partner in her 40s. i am really happy with her and she always says she loves me and is happy too. one thing though but i cant ever let my g.friend know this, i get very jealous but wont show it. not of other women ...

How do I handle this toxic friend of his? She is also an ex of his!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3566 days ago

4 February 2015 (F) - I recently met a man and we fell deeply in love. He is everything, I ever dreamed of and more. My boyfriend has a lot of friends from highschool and they are big party animals. Included in this group is an ex girlfriend. My boyfriend says there has ...

Was I happy with my ex but just didn't get enough reassurance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3568 days ago

3 February 2015 (M) - Hi, I should probably apologise for the length of this post prior to posting it, just very confused at the mo and need help. Im gonna use bullet points to give context - -Dad left at 4 mths old -Mum got ill at 4 yrs and went to psych hospi...

Been dating him almost a year. I'm upset that he still keeps naked photos of ex-Gf on his phone. Is my reaction rational?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

1 February 2015 (F) - I want to know if I'm being rational or not. So I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year when we first started dating I had learnt he kept photos (naked) ones of girls he's been with and ex's who've sent naughty pics. One day I was filming ...

My was my FWB. Since we broke up he's still friends with other women. So why does he treat me as if I'm ''Not Good enough'' for him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

1 February 2015 (F) - Hi. I've never written to a site like this before but i feel like i can't really tell anyone how i'm feeling. I had a casual sexual relationship with a guy a few years ago, which i very much regret as it's not something i'd ever done before and ...