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writes:I broke up with my ex boyfriend (around 3 years ago), he tried to get back with me for ages but I was adamant I wanted to move on...Hes now been with his current girlfriend for around 2 years, and they live together.I realised last year I still love my him, (im convinced were meant to be together!) we've been speaking recently and it sounds like the relationship hes in isnt going well....Do I tell him how I feel or wait for their relationship to finish before I do anything?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 February 2015):
 I would not only NOT tell him, since you have unresolved feelings for him I would strongly urge you to go NO CONTACT with him for both your sake and so not to muddy the waters of his current relationship.
IF things are going bad in his current relationship you don't want to be ANY WHERE around him while it's happening.. it won't allow him to think clearly, it gives h er an excuse to blame you, and it will just tempt you with unrealistic thoughts...
and honeypie is correct... if he's cheating on his GF with you now (emotionally or physically) will you EVER trust him ?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 February 2015):
 Wait. If he wants to end it, let him LEAVE first. Don't be the reason WHY he left her.
And.... it might "sound" like things are n't going so well because he wants attention and sympathy from you.
Consider that if he is willing to cheat on her, he can cheat on you.. Emotionally pr physically.
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