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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm ready to move on and be happy. Maybe my ex just isn't the one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - so me and my ex have broken up for about 2 1/2 months now, we still talk and are friends, we were going to start dating in about a month and give us another try (we were together for about 3 years), but today she came to my house to tell me that she ...

This situation is a mess, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Here's a triangle love story that soon enough is going to turn into a disaster.. There this guy let's call him(mark)and a girl(cindy) and me..so mark really liked me,and I wasn't aware of it but I very well knew that cindy liked mark cuz she conf...

I don't think my ex will ever let me move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - its been 20 days i broke up with my verbally abusive ex, but he still keeps on messaging me goodnight and good morning text, he is saying that he has realised his mistake , now he can understand my importance. he keeps on calling me all of the ...

Should I let her remarks undermine my trust in him? She claims I was second best, that he chose me because her friend didn't want him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hi I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a few years ago Anyways we got back on track solved all the problems in our relationship, and everything was going great. We have a child our own home and I am madly in love with him. My problem is a ...

Some basic rules that will help you to have better dating experiences. Can you add to the list?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

31 October 2012 (M) - It's been a while since I was last here, and I've changed A LOT since then. I'm currently in college, single, and looking into a lot of things I haven't thought about before, until I made the friends I have in college. Haha. Well, I'm learni...

Do I help a friend? Or choose my ex and hope that she chooses me also?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - my ex girlfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago. we broke up for a lot of different reasons. we love each other but we are very different people with very different personalities and viewpoints. we have had talk of getting back together bu...

My fiance said her ex was a better lover.

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

30 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, sorry for the long post,this is the first time asking a question, although I have been reading many posts here trying to come to terms with something that happened to me recently. I have just recently come back from Europe where I a...

Has my ex really changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Has he really changed? I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago as I felt he was moving too fast with the relationship. He stayed persistently trying to get back together and said he has learnt so much about himself. Says he understa...

Long term boyfriend looking up ex girlfriend on facebook!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - I know this may seem dumb but I need some advice on how to deal with this. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years planning our marriage now. he is my first. from the beginning I knew he had an ex. nothing special from what he told me. ...

Do my husband and I give in to my MIL's demands? What can I do about this pressure? Should I call my MIL?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hi. I need your help. My mother in law complains that i dont call her enough. But i dont feel compelled to call her often because when i call she wll be finding fault with me all the time. Either i have not done this or that corectly. Recent...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

He is confusing me with his actions, what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Me and my ex split nearly 2 years ago. He had to move to another state hence the split. After the split i found out i was pregnant and had our baby. 4 months after this he got engaged to someone else. He was always in our babys life...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4412 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

Confused - recent ex-girlfriend who I still love is sending very mixed messages. Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts! :) My ex and I are both 24, she's 25 in November. My now ex-girlfriend of 2 years 5 months dumped me a week ago after a very unfortunate situation. I yelled at her whilst under immense stress, left her house, and didn't answer...

How can I move on from my very loved ex? We broke up because he could not commit

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, Me and my newly ex boyfriend broke up a week ago because he decided he didn't have enough time in his life to commit so me and engage in a serious relationship that I really wanted, so we ended. We are still very much caring about eac...

She was the ONE. I'm still getting over our break-up. I would love to hear your thoughts on my issues please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

27 October 2012 (M) - It's been almost three years since we first broke up. About two years since we actually spoke to each other even though we were hanging out within 5 feet at a friends about a year ago and still didn't actually speak. I don't know a lot obviously,...

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to mee...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

Back in contact with the ex... what to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I've recently come in contact with an ex boyfriend. We were together 6 years ago for a few months but things didn't work out as we were only 19, I went straight into a new relationship that lasted 6 years, we had 2 children together. Now I'm back ...

I want to talk to my ex again but don't want her thinking I'm needy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Okay the thing is, i had a girlfriend not in the same school but in the same town like 6 or 7 months back who i really liked a lot, we broke up in April and we were determined never to speak to each other again, and we didnt, except a couple of 5 ...

Should I call to get this ex-player back in my life? I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Yes he talks to other girls while we were dating... Yes I know he was cutting them off one by one as he did not like his behavior but I broke it off before he could cut the last one off so he continues to talk to her. Now it's been eight months, I...

I am seeking people's opinions of my actions in this failed relationship. What do you think?. I did some bad things, so did she.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - so i started seeing a girl as friends id heard a lot about her ( she's easy,been with this person,been with that person etc etc) but i didn't care because i make up my own mind about people and me and this girl got on great so after about a month of...

Would you put up with a jealous man just so you could get the other nice things back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend because I found him on a dating site and even when I confronted him he said it wasn't him and even blamed me for setting it up. Well he wasn't very nice to me, very paranoid, jealous and angry a lot. I decided ...

I'm jealous that his 16 year old daughter is pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Ok I know this is going to generate negative responses but here goes. My longtime baby daddy just informed me that his 16 yr old is 5 months pregnant. One, I can't shake off that he waited 5 months to tell me and second, I can't help but to feel ...

Boyfriend is mean and pressuring me for sex. Should I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 5 months dearly, but i'm still not ready for sex and he pressures me sometimes. We have different religious views and his parents don't want to meet me,and on top of that he can be soo mean to me. But he can also be soo sweet. ...

Should I just stop being in contact with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - This guy i used to date sent me a text message today saying " Say hello by all means, but i won't be out with you on Thursday ". I bumped into him yesterday when we were in town, and we had a chat. I told him that i would be out again on Thursday, ...

Can I stay close to my BF's family if we finish our affair? Life with my husband is not good. And My BF now has a new GF.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am married without children and i have a lover. we have been seeing each other for 4 years now and for the the first year we were only friends. I am not happy with my husband but i dont want to leave him as he is a handsome guy and it ends ther...

Why can't my ex leave the past behind? I did, why can't he?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for many years after 04 we split for good I was dating him since 1983. Common-Law marriage I would say I finally built up enough courage to finally leave him. i made it out with his two children. N...

But which one? The guy who drinks a lot and is cheating on me versus the nice good looking guy? And why do I still feel so much for the first guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I am confused, i am in a good relationship with a great guy, who loves me and the sex is great. however he's in a relationship with the mother of his daughter.(they stay in the same house, she doesn't have anywhere else to go, plus he loves th...

I'm falling for this guy, but I'm confused as I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - so i am pretty young, 18. i have a child he is 1 1/2 years old. my sons dad has been out of the picture for 1 year. i got a job at a local store and i met this guy we'll call him X. he is 26 has 2 children and works at the same store. we have ...

Why does someone dump you and then come back acting like he wants my attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for six months. We were really close--I thought. He told me he loved me AND cared about me-- AND showed it as well. Two months ago he told me I was beautiful, intelligent, AND perfect for him but something was "missing" AND ...

We've been together four years, have a child, but I think he still loves his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi my boyfriend n I have been together for the pass 4 yrs and we have a 11 month old son together.but recently he started back talking to his ex and i think they started going out wen they were 14 and my boyfriend is 33 so yes they have known each ...

I'm feeling guilty about finally being happy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - So I split up with my ex about a month ago now, two years of being treated badly and being unhappy finally came to an end, although we had our good times, the bad eventually weighed out the good which made it practically unbearable to be around ...

Saw my ex after almost 14 months of NC

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - 2 days ago, I saw my very first ex boyfriend at the gym. IT had been about 14 months since we had seen each other. When he broke up wiht me he said he wanted to be friends and I flat out told him that I couldn't turn off my feelings for him...

Guilty? maybe? Is the reason I can't ask out this other girl because I'm worried about hurting her further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - There are at least two girls at school who fancy me. Possibly a third. One of them I'm really good friends with but she hasn't mentioned it yet, but people think she does fancy me. One of them likes me and I like her back but I'm friends with...

My ex is still obsessive about me. Why can't he move on? Do I cut my ex off completely even though my son likes seeing his father?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

21 October 2012 (?) - Me and my ex were together for 11 years and we had one child together who has a learning disability. I ended the relationship 4 years ago, and will NEVER have him back. My ex is obsessed with me as he still believes that there is a chance that ...

Why does my wife of 18 years need to talk to men online? And meet them? and lie? Is this the beginning of the end of our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 18 years. We have 10 year old twins together. We used to share an email account (mine) but now she has 3 or 4 email accounts of her own. I only have one email account and she has the password to my account. She ...

He's never pushed for sex. So is he just not into me? Or is he not over his ex yet? How do I respond?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Hello, So I know the answer really... He's just not that into you, move on, but as a lady in my mid 30's I still feel the need to ask Pathetic really So I meet this guy in a bar, he's funny, smart, sexy I like him a lot. We see each oth...

I want to have sex with my married ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

20 October 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend has come back into my life after a four year absence. After she broke off our engagement she had a baby with another man, who she broke up with afterwards. She is now married and has a second child. I have gotten over the ...

Am I paranoid or confused for thinking she is still in love with her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4419 days ago

20 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated 2 years back,we broke up,she got married and is now divorced. We did get back together recently and have decided to get married. After seeing her her ex husband not too long ago(never made convo),I've noticed a change...

Was it wrong for me to finally object? His binge drinking and his obstinant attitude to trying to address his eczema has me fed up.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I need a bit of advice regarding my ex partner and his skin condition please - he had very bad exzema that flares up when he binge drinks. Despite the fact that this guy treated me really, really badly for nearly two decades - after more tha...

She loved me, left me, and now wants to come back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - Hi I had never been with a girl ever an then met someone in jan this year!! Fell for her head over heels an gave her my heart. An she used me and then dropped me in April to go back to her ex who had done the same to her!!! But I haven't moved on ...

How to appologise to best friend and his girl friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - my ex husband and i were in a relationship for 11 years before we split but we grew up together and have been through a lot together. i was extremely attached to him and had no one else in my life. he is truly a great guy and he did a lot for me and ...

Should I leave my b/f because he wants his hot ex on facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - My bf of a year and I were merging facebooks, and we were thinking of who to add from both our accounts. So he picks this woman from his, and says he wants to add her. I ask who it is, and its an ex. Now im cool with that...only... shes way hotte...

My partner is in contact with his ex but lies about it. Am I right to be concerned or am I making it more than it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Hi, Bit of back ground. Me and my bf started a long distance relationship we met through a long time mutual friend. I was happy being single and he was in limbo with his fiancée. However he was just waiting for the appropriate time to end it. D...

The Ex factor. How do I stop becoming obsessed with my partner's ex girlfriends and ex-wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - I am doing my usual self-destructive stuff that is driving my new boyfriend away. Right now I feel sick to the stomach that I am at this again. Nearly every relationship I have become obsessed with their ex girlfriend/wife. Currently I am ...

How can I get over this other man completely, and feel united with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - A lot of things happened since I was here last. I tried to be away from the man i used to date in the past years and i met a new guy with whom i get married. Although i feel happy, i think a lot of time about my ex boyfriend. He calls me sometimes...

I'm pregnant, I look after his son. But he's gone cold on me. And he's talking to his ex. Can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid. I been dating my boyfriend for nine months now. At first he was the best. Now he acts different towards me and my family. He seems so cold like he doesn't care about nothing. He says he is hard on me to make me stronger, but its on...

My ex really loved me. WIll we ever get together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

17 October 2012 (F) - I am still madly in love with my ex . He broke up with me because he said he was getting sick of my moods . It was unexpected because he really loved me and I was confused . A few weeks later my best friend started hanging out with him and I started ...