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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy i used to date sent me a text message today saying " Say hello by all means, but i won't be out with you on Thursday ". I bumped into him yesterday when we were in town, and we had a chat. I told him that i would be out again on Thursday, and that we could meet up, if he wanted to. He told me to send him a text message next week, to arrange it. I think he still likes me, even though i have a boyfriend, but i'm not sure if he was just after one thing, or if he really likes me. He wanted me to go back to his place with him yesterday, but i told him i was going meeting my boyfriend later on. Maybe he was upset by that ?. I have posted other questions on here about my ex and my boyfriend. I'm confused because, if he doesn't want to arrange to meet up, then why would he want me to speak to him if i bump into him ?. And do you think he means that i should only say hello to him, and nothing else, if i see him ?. Or should i ignore him, if i see him ?. I would have preferred it if he hadn't said anything at all, instead of sending that message. Do you think he was being nasty in that message ?. I haven't responded to the message, as i don't know what to say.Here are the links to some other posts about my ex and my boyfriend.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-still-like-the-guy-i-used-to.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-he-really-only-wants-to.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2012): I would respond to the message... either something playful to see what his reaction is, or just flat out ask him if he's trying to be rude. It sounds like he's just being rude if he said nothing after to indicate it was a joke. Good luck.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (22 October 2012):
 Hi
Definately stop contact with him,why risk losing your boyfriend over some idiot who wants nothing but sex?
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (22 October 2012):
 You met by chance, he tried to get you to go back to his place even though he knows you have a boyfriend. You refused but said, lets meet up Thursday, he gotten the hump about it and is letting you know you are back in the friends zone and he doesn't want to hang out with you.
If you have a boyfriend, why bother with this dude who seems he just wants sex anyhow...why waste your time?
Move on, forget him because he's a jerk.
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