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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Why did she just diss my feelings that I still love her and want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for about 5-6 months already. We were in a long distance relationship for that time. We had an amazing bond together best friends, lovers we just got along so perfectly. Now during this break up I have ...

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

Was it wrong to message my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I know i shouldnt care about my ex, and that i should let him go out of my life, except i caved in a asked him to clear up a rumour i heard. I heard that he's dating a new girl and i messaged him and asked if it was true or not and told him if it ...

Love or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for 7 months but he never cared about me and would dog me and he's moved on but the thing is his cousin and me wanna be together do you think thats wrong???????????? to be with his cousin......

How long am I meant to last during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Hai, I am 24M. I had sex when i was 21 and it did not lasted for more than 10mins and my gf broke up with me as she wanted to go long. since then i gave up untill a week bak i met this woman who was 35 and we met and very soon got so comfotable that ...

Ex boyfriend doesn't want to date me but keeps asking if I am dating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up about four months ago and i was really upset he was my first boyfriend and not to mention my first love. He said he was moving away and ended up not moving which was the reason for the break up and he also didn't know ...

Should I be a close friend to my ex or leave it and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - well i think im falling for my ex agian. Were both 15 and was together for 11 months 2 years ago but now he says to me that he likes me a lot and would love to have a relationship with me again, but the only thing is his not ready for a long ...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

Why does my ex hate me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I ended a relaionship with an ex. And he hated me right after. Im not really sure why, there was never a reason. i was good to him. We never fought until the last day we broke up. he hates my guys now and is constantly talking bad about me. Idk why ...

I'd love to be with my ex again, any advice from the ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We were in a long distance thing for about a year. I lived in her city for about 7 months. We were amazing together. I guess the distance broke us. During this 6 months apart I've been dating and ...

When I asked my b/f about getting engaged, he says "whats the rush"? What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, we both have children from previous relationships, everyday he says he loves me, we have had problems in the past with his ex, she has called me in the past to tell me my boyfriend was cheating ...

My b/f is jealous towards my old boyfriend who passed away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months, and we have a really good relationship, up untill a week ago. See my ex boyfriend pasted away, 16 months ago. And it has taken sometime to get over him, I have a tattoo for him, on my back. ...

Why can't he see how much I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I went out with this boy and then I broke up with him and I spent my whole time regretting it.. and then a year later we started texting again,he was like my best friend and then after a few months we started scoring and stuff..and we even ...

Why has my ex called twice in 2 days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - my ex-boyfriend has called me twice in two days. he wont talk talk on my voicemail. why is he doing this.what does this mean? i still have strong feelings for him. we dated a year. it has been a little over a year since he broke up with me. he was ...

I lost everything because I was to blame for the break up, now I cant seem to get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi, It would be great if I could get some great advice from this site. Several years back i met a really great guy, we were together all most 5 years. then he decied to get up and move to califorina he need to get away from us. well when we meet he ...

I have gone from having lots of contact with my ex and to nothing! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I need some help and some advice! My ex of fifteen months broke up with me a few months ago. The only reason I've had since then was that we argued too much. However, he cancelled our holiday, made me lose money and even burnt my things. Thin...

I cant stand my boyfriend hanging out with his ex, I'm sure she wants him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been going out for a year and a couple of mouths. every thing started out grat till he started hanging out with his ex that he dated for 6 years and her bf. I live with my boyfriend and his grandparents. My family dont wont any ...

I'm hurt my ex is moving on so fast!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So when my ex broke up with me (only a month ago), he said he wasn't breaking up with me for any girls or anything, and he wasn't going to start dating any time soon. I just found out theres one girl he's been texting all the time and talking to ...

I think I might still have feelings for my ex, even though I'm engaged to his best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - About a year in a half ago I started dating a co worker. It ended because he went back to his ex. I was heart broken but eventually moved on myself, with his roommate/best friend. I don't know exactly how it happneded. But now we are engaged and ...

What kind of person does this to someone?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hi this may seem a little long but bare with me and maybe i will get an answer that fits the profile,I have once again split from my baby`s father for the very last time in nearly 7yrs as a couple,when we got together he warned me that he was a ...

Do I have the right to ask what he's up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, ...

How can I tell if shes really moved on from her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I'm only 15 and you may think that this is only something trivial but it's tearing me apart! This girl I know I really fancy and I have for quite a time now. She has recently (2/3 weeks) split with her boyfriend who cheated on her (twice) and she is ...

Why is my ex ignoring me and hanging around with lots of other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hi ok im actually at the point where i have been having an emotional breakdown almost every day and dont know what to do anymore. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and I have been left feeling very confused and hurt and need some advice...

Why am I obsessed with hearing stories of my ex cheating on me with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have broken up with my girlfriend as a result of her infidelity. Of late she has taken to telling me all about how she used to cheat on me and with whom and how-in some cases with exact dates. The stories are crude, chillin, heartbreaking and ...

I love my ex and am thinking about going back to him but my bad boy is so much fun.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5178 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I was dating the sweetest guy in the world for about 3 years... we were in love for most of the time, but we were in a long distance relationship, he was 20 and i was 16....so we had a few differences. He was way too possesive and never trusted me. ...

Should I let my ex bf back in my life...or go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a tough spot. Here's some background... I got with this guy when I was 17, we were together for 6 years, and had two kids together. The relationship was.. rocky, to say the least. It was always him cheating on me constantly, leaving me for ...

What do I do abt my fiances interfering ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - What do i do about the always interfering ex?my fiance and i hv 2 kids and hv been 2gether 4 about 4 1/2yrs off and on,our relationship has had alot of problems thanks 2 his ex...when we 1st started dating she would send me emails about her having ...

It's been over 6 years and I still can't get over him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - how can i just move on? it has been over 6 years and i can't get over him. now from time to time we will get together and I always think it is us getting back together but it is him just using me and I get hurt everytime. he has made it clear th...

What is he up to, what does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - This guy and I dated for about 6 months. We broke up because he didnt think I was ready for a relationship, basically, and told me he still cares for me. I made the mistake of talking to him constantly, and arranged to see him twice (the second t...

How can I move on, when I miss him so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - i know its not love, but why do i miss him so much, we broke up over 1 months ago but i cant stop thinking about him, we had a clean break, no contact with each other... I miss him so much i cry myself to sleep most nights thinking about the ...

Your honest opinion but being open minded?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Hi this may be some what long and may not happen often but I have to ask you guys how do you feel about the situation im going to talk about. First of I got married to my childhood love at the age of 18. He was my world and had drea...

My ex girlfriend is making me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of one year broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I was very good to her and all she did was take. She wanted some space which I had a hard time giving to her and after some fighting she told me that she did not love me anymore. She ...

What should I do about his ex wife texting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfreind now for seven months i have moved in with him we are both divored his ex wife keeps texing him but nwhen i ask him he denires it but i know i should not have looked atbhis phone but i did as its driving me mad and i ...

His Ex Stalks Him on Facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's ex is all over his Facebook page, and it's recently started to bother me, especially as his family (who are also on FB and I am very close to) have started commenting on it. They broke up over a year ago, he had 6 months being sin...

Is it best I walk away from this relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I really need some good advice. I've recently split with my boyfriend of 14months because his friend told me he cheated on me when we were first together. My boyfriend admitted it but says he wants to move on. Furthermore, his friend told me more ...

My head is wrecked because of her...help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Hey people.My story is that is a ex of mine who i feel for is a real head messer.She has model looks but messed me about big time when we where together,she lied to me all the time and one week she would be nice the next nasty as hell to me.i loved ...

Don't want to lose him because of that bitch!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (?) - Well my x I like him so much and I'm berly getting over him it's beeen 2 or even 3 years. And a month ago he had to leave with his mom to another state we tryed a long distNce relationship but It didn't work out.. Umm now I've found out dat he has ...

How can I stop checking up on my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - How do I simply stop caring about what my ex does and how he lives his life now? I can't help but sometimes check out his facebook and see who he's talking too and what he's up to, which I am trying to stop. How do I stop caring about everything so ...

Do I wait for this guy? Is it worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys! Right, here's the deal, met these group of friends a while a go, and one of them i had a bit of a thing with, but well it wasnt really anything, i wasnt attracted to him, it was just one of them things you go with, well that's passed n...

Do you ever really forget your first love..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I met mine almost 3 years ago, we were together for a year and a half, and yeah things went quite badly towards the end, he changed and what not. But it's been almost 2 years since we broke up and I still think about him every single day, I st...

Sexual emails to ex could come back and hit me in the face

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - ok here my prob i sent some sexual emails to my ex boyfriend now he might use them against me by showing them to my parents etc which also can be used in court. reason why im saying in court because i'm pregant and he doesnt want to pay money tow...

My soon to be ex wife wants us to be friends and have sex...but part of me thinks it is wrong. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My soon to be ex wife has very firmly indicated she wants to have sex with me and keep me as her fuck buddy while she is single and has "the need". The irony of this is, she almost never asked for sex during our marriage, and in fact, the lack of ...

Help my heart catch up with reality. Please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Wow, it's weird to call him my ex. We were together 4.5 years ( just after I turned 18) and I loved him so much. I still do. We broke up in march. 2 days after I found him in bed with someone else. " we were only kissing, no sex..." does not matter. ...

The situation has escalated with my ex so much that it has ended up in court! I never wanted it to be like this.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Ok so my ex boyfriend and I of 12 months broke up in march because some girl answered his phone acting like she was having sex with him when I was states away. We stopped talking and I was upset so I ignored him when he tried getting back with me. I ...

My friends, family and kids don't like the man I love and they refuse to get to know him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i am a divorced 50 year old mother of 3....am in love with a man that no one, my kids, my ex or my friends like, even thought they refuse to get to know him. what do i do?...

I guess he is the one who got away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - dear everyone, this is a strange story.. I met my ex-boyfriend through a mutual friend. We were very young. I was 17 and he was 19. We started dating and broke up after a month because.. we were just too young and lived 2 hours away from each o...

I need him but he doesn't give me what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - hello everyone, I ask you to help me please because this problem is making me very miserable... I've been with this guy for nearly 4 months now but he was my ex from a long and troubled relationship, he keeps coming back to me, and this last tim...