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writes: Well my x I like him so much and I'm berly getting over him it's beeen 2 or even 3 years. And a month ago he had to leave with his mom to another state we tryed a long distNce relationship but It didn't work out.. Umm now I've found out dat he has started going out with a uglyer ass bitch ( long distance re. Too). she has been wantting to go out with him ever since when I was going out with him which was around September of last year.. But now dat they r going out he has told me straight up he doesn't wat to talk to ke nomore because he is going out with her he sent me dis in a txt after I sent him one ... Today I got home and disided to call him and c why he was telling me all dat and he said dat it was becauze I still liked him hahaha but NO.. Umm and then he was telling me all dis shit he had never told me straight up...n other words it sounds like dat bitch is getting stuff in his head bout me dat will kill our friendship I don't want to lose him as a friend he was/ is someone realyy special for me.. Wat can I do I don't want to lose him.. [Mod Note: kept poster's original title]
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 Wow, why is your anger directed at her? She didn't leave you, he did.
And yeah, bitterness doesn't become you.
Let him go, you don't really have a choice. The more bitter and resentful you become the more he will want to distance himself from you.
the only one acting like a bitch in this... is you.
*side-note* PLEASE use a spell check - the whole "text speak" is annoying to read.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2010):
You've already turned into a bitter ex, and it's not becoming. You claim she's a bitch. Guess what, she can't be because he's with her. You've lost him. You lost him when it ended, and he's not coming back. Now he's cut you out. You need to let this go, or you'll wind up obsessed with a court order on you. He's made a decision to cut you out because for him, and for his new relationship, he feels that it is the right thing to do. It hurts, I know. But there are two ways you can handle this. Either you are the ex who rises above it and moves on, or you can be the weird psycho ex who ends up getting taken to court for abuse and such. He's gone, he's not coming back and he's cut you out. You need to move on, or you'll be the one who loses out even more.
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