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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:how can i just move on?it has been over 6 years and i can't get over him. now from time to time we will get together and I always think it is us getting back together but it is him just using me and I get hurt everytime.he has made it clear that he does not want me but yet I'm still in love with him. what should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 July 2010):
You're not getting over him, because you're not being brave and totally cutting him out of your life. 6 years on, you're still talking to him and you're still letting yourself being used.
For a start, cut contact with this man. Delete his numbers, emails, the lot. Cut him out.
Then, get back out there with friends, spend time by yourself, travel, go on spa weekends and spoil yourself, start new hobbies, make new friends, work harder on your career.
You need to be making more of an effort to get over him. And you need to start by cutting him out.
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