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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I make sure my asshole is completely clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - im guna try anal soon and i know this is really gross but how cn i make sure my asshole is completely clean?...

Permanently dehydrated...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Ok well this isnt really relationshippy, but i need help. I'm pernamently dehydrated, and i have some sort of mental block in me that makes me hate to drink. i refuse to drink tap water and am allergic to most juices, and i can only drink from small ...

What is wrong with teacher/student relatonships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - what's the big taboo with student teacher relationships? I know there's all this stuff about peadophillia, but why does it HAVE to be reported? And does anyone know how teachers react, like what do they say to a student who has just admitted...

Has he fallen out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been dating a boy named Coletun for nearly a month. When he first asked me out I told him yes, but then wasn’t quite sure. I was afraid I might have just been saying yes to him because he was the only good guy who had asked me out and I was ...

How can I stop feeling inferior to people all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) - Its forever since I've been facing this problem. I'm actually pretty low on self esteem and confidence. I'm pretty, good with my subject and good at things which I have pursued. Whenever I think of the things I have accomplished I feel good but when ...

My best friend is dating my ex who I still love... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out ...

I might want more... Eventually

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - hey. Well straight to the point. I've been talkin dirty over the net to this guy i've known for quite a long time. We've been good mates for a couple of years now. So, We're planning to get down and dirty, sometime soon in the future. But i ac...

I was too clingy and my girlfriend has drifted. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I'am whit this girl for about a month now,(this is my first relationship by the way), at first it was great we were totally over each other and I could see that she is attracted to me, but I was too clingy and followed her wherever she went...

2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...

I'm worried! Is this an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Okay this is wierd!..but when having oral sex, and the guy is fingering a girl, and she tells him too stop, and he smiles and says i could feel that thing a jumpin, but he talks about having sex again, the next night...is that bad? Like should the ...

How can I show my ex-friend I am happy without him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - So I have an ex-friend who I kinda dislike. But today I felt upset because he was with other people and I felt lonely and like I had nobody. I do have my own friends but I feel alone too sometimes. I want to show him that I'm happy with not being ...

I'm depressed after my abortion.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...

My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...

Should I tell my best friend her boyfriend kissed me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - My best friends boy-friend kissed another girl and guess who it was! ME!! But i dont like him .... I think he's a jerk. So should i tell her or walk away ?? Cause i dont want to tell her and ruin our friendship... PLEASE I NEED HELP!!!...

My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...

What do these vivid and awful dreams mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (?) - can anyone help me interpret these dreams? im so confused. lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot. we broke up on monday night (its thursday morning now). on monday night, i had a dream that i went out and kept drinking and drinking...

Is it wrong to love your cousin? If so, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hi I am in love with my cousin. I have feeling for her and think she does to, and I have not told her that I loved her, and i am going to wate to ask har to have sex or do any thing lick to marriy her tell we get older. I realy whant to tell he...

Will a penis that curves to the left be a turn off to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hey. Im 15 and my penis curves slightly to the left. I was just wonderin is this a turn off to most girls and will it still feel good to them when I do decide to have sex? ...

How do I tell this guy that I am not interested in him and I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i have just been asked out by this guy i really like and have said yes, but i have a dilema and this may sound really vain and the truth is im really not, i know that i am not that great looking and that people fall for my personality not that i am ...

How can I make him like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - there is this guy in my class every girl likes.he is the hottest and cutest guy and funniest. i liked him always.but recently he has started behaving towards me as if he likes me in a joking manner. he behaves like that with a lot of girls but he ...

Please help, how do I tell my parents and my bf I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Well....i am 16 and my boy friend is 19 and i was ready to have sex so we did it some how condom broke and i am now pregnant...i was very thin and its now my 3rd month and you cant really tell i have never consitered abortion but i am just scared 2 ...

I've never kissed before and don't know how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss? ...

What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - What does it mean when someone is considered the "backbone" of a relationship?...

Why don't I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do ...

Do you have to have relationships to know your sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I have always considered myself as straight. I guess I didnt really think about it too much. I still had my doubts that I could be gay. Now I am having strong feeligns for a girl at school. These have lasted for a year. I have sexual and romantic ...

She's on the fence, how do I get her back?

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5 November 2009 (M) - So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and ...

We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...

Should I leave things alone or try to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this may take a while but please read all of it. I really need some advice on this. I'll start this story in with my 7th when I was 14 grade year. I met this girl named Laurinda and I'm not gonna lie at first I thought she was just some annoying...

How can I get condoms discretely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - i'm only 13 years old and my girlfriend want us to have sex and i said i wont do it until we have a condom. she said she cant get one. i want to know a way to get a condom with out my parents finding out and not having to be imbaressed at the store...

I'm 13 years old and have dating and kissing questions.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need help!!! im 13 and never benn kissed. And everyone else i my school has already have a boy-friend . Ok this guy i like him but my best friend likes him too!! but i think he likes me not her .... and the way i know it is because he ...

I can't tell if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I really like this guy who is two years older than me. I told his cousin, who is my friend, and she told him. He doesnt want a relationship because he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been cheated on four times and well here I am trying again. He's ...

Can a smaller penis look bigger from a different person's perspective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hi i am about 18 years of age, and I have a question on measurement in penis sizes. When i put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that i am 8 inches. Now the problem is, when i was in MMA the men had to take showers when the session was over. I ...

What are the "three bases" people refer to with making out or sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - ok so i feel really dumb for not already knowing this but what are the 3 bases? i mean i feel that i rally should know but for some reason i dont and i think its just cause when i was younger i just kept telling myself i will know later and now i ...

Should I ask my boyfriend for space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i know i love my boyfriend, i appreciate everything he do for me. and i don't want to leave him. but lately i feel like a need a little space. i don't know if if it is because i am in college and i want to just have other options. but should i tell ...

My girlfriend is not ready to give me oral sex and I don't want to push her. Aside from hand jobs, what else can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have made it to hand jobs. She is not sure about a blowjob and wants to take it another step without going to blowjob. What else can we do?...

Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give ...

When we did it it, he didn't get his thing all the way in. Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Im 13 right now and im so scared about if im pregnate...i know i shoudnt of had sex and i know i should have used a condom, but i didnt think of it....it has been almost 12 weeks and i dont physicaly feel different but i cant get this out of my he...

He doesn't get it in before I push him away because of the pain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i just truned 16 and me and my boyfriend who is 23 have been going out for a year in half and he said he will wait till i am ready to have sex as it will be my first time and now that i am 16 i feel that i am ready to have sex .. i have been rea...

Help me decide if I am gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - I need help. I am 16. I dont know if i am gay and i want to know what you all think. I think i like girls. And i have only ever been attracted to girls when seeing them. However when i wank, (i tried thinking of guys once) i cum to guys before i ...

I don't want to be just friends! It's too hard to pretend nothing happened!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5508 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this is my situation. My ex and i broke up in early june. Im a junior in high school so it so it was summer vacation. She went to school where i went but she lived two hours away so i knew i wouldnt see her the rest of the summer and that was ...