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writes:I need help. I am 16. I dont know if i am gay and i want to know what you all think. I think i like girls. And i have only ever been attracted to girls when seeing them. However when i wank, (i tried thinking of guys once) i cum to guys before i do to girls. But i cant see myself with anyone but girls in real life. I get hard to girls, but if i think of guys while im hard, i cum faster. is it because i am thinking of something different, or am i actually gay? I dont know. I still am very attracted to women. I dont think im bisexual, and i dont think i can be turned on around men. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Lots of people are brought up to think that sex is dirty and wrong. And strangely enough, when masturbating the things that they think are dirty and wrong get them off faster. It happens, it's common, and it's nothing to sweat about. No one knows what goes on in your mind when you're yanking in private.
If you want to be with a girl, it doesn't sound like there's a problem, so just chill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): Honestly, I don't think that makes you gay. Many people have fantasies about things that they would NEVER want in real life. Part of the titilation is the forbidden, naughty, aspect.
I have graphic fantasies about rape but under no circumstances do I want it to happen in real life!
So no I do not think you are gay and I do not think you should worry about that.
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reader, britt5219 +, writes (5 November 2009):
if you are attracted to women then you are not gay. Plus being bisexual does not mean that you like each sex equally. In your case, you prolly are more attracted to women. your attraction to men seems to be purely physical, which in my opinion doesn't make you gay because you dont wish to pursue a relationship with a man. Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): You could be bi-sexual. Something else to think about, there was a scientist (the name escapes me) who thought of sexuality as being fluid rather than consistant and it is said to be more so in teenagers and young adults. You could have some sexual attraction to guys now but in a year you may feel differently. Either way, I would not stress about it. Homosexuals get a lot of bad wrap in society but in reality it is the type of person you are that counts. Anyone who wants to judge you based on your sexuality is not worth your time.
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