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30-35,
*francy
writes:my boyfriend and i met last weekend ,we had a great time together, despite the fact we have been dating for six months i just do not seem to build trust on him.. i do know know where the problem is am so insecure and afraid of loosing him.. what do i do to make sure he really love me?
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reader, FireAndIce  +, writes (5 November 2009):
Has he ever given you reason not to trust him? If not, your trust issues are based either on past experiences, insecurities or both.
It's difficult to let your guard down and trust someone and sometimes that's not a bad thing. Someone really has to earn your trust.
Perhaps you even have a gut instinct that you should not trust him.
But be careful, don't let insecurity ruin what could potentially be an amazing relationship. If you have reason not to trust him, then don't. But if it has no basis, try to work through your insecurities.
You're wondering if he loves you...that's not something any one of us can answer. If you're questioning his feelings for you, maybe THAT'S the reason you don't trust him.
Go with your gut instinct on this.
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