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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Should I pursue my friend's ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Ok here's what went down. I like this boy. But he dated a friend of mine. He only went out with her because he wanted to see if there's was chemistry...and there wasn't. So he dumped her. Now I want to ask him out, but my friend still likes him, and ...

How can I get some 'me' time in this smothering relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend is very needy and possessive. We've been dating for 6 months now, and we're both 15. Over the last few months, it's been getting worse and worse. She LITERALLY expects me to hang out with her every second of my spare time, ...

My husband is a devoted teacher, maybe too devoted to his....work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I can't believe it's come to this-posting an anonymous question on an advice forum. I hope someone can help! It started a while ago, four years ago. My husband is a teacher, a very dedicated devoted teacher who is respected and high up in his s...

My teacher told me he loves me too much to have a relationship with me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi. My teacher told me that he loves me too much to do anything about it. I'm 14 and he is 30. He has taught me for the past 2 years. It started just basic flirting really, he stares and smiles at me, touches my shoulders, hands etc. He asks my ...

My ex and I are talking again. Should I tell him I still love him or just leave it as friends?

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27 November 2009 (F) - Alrighty. So my and my boy friend broke up and I really still love him, I've tried to get over him, not talking to him and what not, but it just won't work. Me and him are talking now and I don't know if I should tell him how I still feel or not any ...

My friends thinks he fancies me but sometimes he avoids me. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have this problem, basically I really like this lad. And he knows that a used to like him blah blah blah. Anyways my friends really think he is interested this time, we keep catching eye contact. We act like friends but sometimes he compl...

He's in a gang, but a sweet guy. Is he using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I met *John during the summer in the middle of July through the internet. We have already met in person and after about 2 and a half months of knowing each other, we began dating, which lasted for about 2 weeks. The reason we broke up is because ...

Will I ever learn to live alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old, never been kissed, not pretty, very chubby and I'm asking: Will I ever learn to live alone? Because of my appearance probably no one will ever want something more than be friend with me....

My friends have spread it around that I like him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - hi aunts i really need help, ok so ive liked this guy for nearly a year now and i thought it was just a secret between me and my friends an not even all of them know because out of all 15 of my best friends only 7 know who i like but i think someone ...

Help!!! What do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Basically, what do you do when your best friend fancies your "ex". I have a history with this guy. She doesnt know I had anything going on so I cant tell her no or anything. Ive only started getting over this guy. I dont know if hes doing this to ...

Revenge is sweet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ...

The distance isn't working out and he wants to break up with me but I just can't do it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. we've been at it for almost one full year and i am COMPLETELY attached to him but recently the distance just hasn't been working out. We fight a lot and he's officially tired and bored of me. ...

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when ...

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the ...

How can I manage to feel more comfortable around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, I had a drunken one night stand with a guy from uni 3 weeks ago, who I had only known for 3 weeks beforehand. He is fairly shy and its quite uncomfortable between us. He asked my friend whether I had a bf, what my interests are so I think ...

First Christmas together, What do you get a boyfriend when your 5 months pregnant and lingerie doesn't fit the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for about 11 months now, we are planning on getting married in the next 2 years. On top of that I am 5 months pregnant with our first child. This Christmas will be our first together, and I have no idea what to ...

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is...

Forceful sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came ...

I am just so in love with him, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I need help. I keep having sexual dreams about my teacher and i really want to tell him. It feels that everytime i see him i will explode because i want to tell him. He is so sweet and cool. He is my p.e teacher so he is in great shape. He has th...

I performed oral sex on my best friend. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - At the beginning of this year, I met possibly the most amazing guy at my university. We became almost best friends through the course of the year, we did everything together and talked everyday. However, I had fallen really hard for him. Although he ...

Question about masturbating and pregnancy.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Lets say that I was masturbating and I used moisturizing lotion. If I accidentally got some of my pre-cum on the bottle top and my sister used that bottle, could she get pregnant????!!!!! I doubt it but still.......

Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I was wondering, since it happened to me yesterday. Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area, in this case on your penis ?????? Its exactly like one, except if i press it for it to pop it kinda swells. And if not then what could it be ?...

Breaking up is hard to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Well, I was in an eight month relationship. It ended on November second and I was devastated by it. He said he doesn't want his stuff back. But if we're broken up, what's the point of me having it? Everyone I have talked to has said that he'll be ...

Why does he care if I have met someone when he was the one that rejected me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - okay so here is my situation..well a couple of months ago i got rejected by a guy that i really liked lets call him Vic..okay so after like a week that he rejected me he would still send me text messages everday asking me about my day and what i am ...

How can I stop being so depressed over my lack of experience with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - 17 never been kissed all my friends been kissed,lost there v had there first proper experiences etc and there happy everyone I know is but I'm not and I have not had anyone ever? closest thing I've ever had to a girl is online twice and I just got ...

Is it weird that we don't talk on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - iv just started dating this guy and hes my first ever boyfriend and kiss we text all the time and whenever we see each other at school we talk but we don't talk on the phone at first i thought that there was no problem with that but most...

How can I break this smoking habit once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - This may seem pathetic but its true. Simply put I'm an old kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with I seem to make everything worse for myself and because I can't deal with it I smoke. It started out at smoking with my friends ...

What should I do about my parents rule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - ok so im 16 and my bf is 19 and i love him more than anything but my parents have this 2 year rule that i cant date anyone that is more than 2 years older than me but they wont even meet him and give him a chance he is a great guy nd ive been wit ...

Is it real? Or just an illusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, i'v been dateing my girlfriend for about 4-5 weeks. She seems like a really nice girl and she really looks like she loves me. She is always so sweet to me, and says stuff like "your the best boyfriend i ever had" and "your everything...