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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Am I just trying to fill a void because my boyfriend and I broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5488 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him ...

Which guy should I focus on???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok, i have a few guys on the go at the moment and would really like to focus on one, as a boyfriend likee. But theres little things about them that make me not know which to choose. So, the first one is a boy in 6th form, i'm in year 11 (he's 2 ...

I can't decide which one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Theres a guy that has been in love with me since high school he has seen me in and out of relationships and has always been there for me even now that we graduated we remained grreat friends i can call to go anywhere with me and i love that about ...

What should I get my boyfriend for Hannukah?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5485 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been "going out" for almost 10 months. I know that he's getting me something for Christmas and that I'll really like it. We're both 13. What should I get him for Hannukah? He's Jewish and I'm Christian. I want to get ...

I'm scared to give him a hand job in case I do it wrong!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and i've only ever kissed and made out with guys. I'm now going out with this guy who's 18 and more experienced and i want to give him a hand job, but i dont know how to do it and i'm scared he might judge me if i do it wrong. Should i tell ...

My girlfriend, my "friend" and I...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - so i love my girlfriend we've been goin out for 6 months n its been great...the problem is i lost a friend because of it well this is the story when i met her she had a boyfriend we talked and talked for hours we became really close friends my frien...

I need your help aunts... Should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes, I'm 13 an I've liked one of my best friends for a year, but for a while he was being a bit off wiv me for a while but then today he was being really nice to me an sitting next to me in class and we were having a laugh, and it was such ...

Why can't people mind their own business sometimes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I ...

People are gossiping about me. How can I cope?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

Is it normal to blush everytime you see a cute guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi, i just have a question. is it normal for girls to like several guys at once. well not excactly like but think they look hot or something, because everytime i see a cute guy, i totally blush everytime i see him (like at school) is this normal...

How can I overcome my inhibitions and keep my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we ...

My friend kissed my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hello i have a big problem, i've been going out with this girl for a month, and i love her though its embarrassing to admit. See everything was going well until we started having arguements. one time we didnt speak for three days but eventual...

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone ...

Does my friend have a crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My friend and I tease each other a lot. We usually tease each about each others' habits, likes dislikes, (he comments a lot about my random habits, and I usually tease him about how much he hates me/stuff I do)... we're mean to each other, but in a ...

Why does no one want to kiss me in spin the bottle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Ok, what to do what to do: I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. ...

Crisis with boys and my best friend! Help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend Holly!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him. He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they ...

Does he sincerely like me? Or is to shy to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - When I don’t see my friend he acts differently because I think he misses me. When I and he pass each other walking in the halls, he won’t look at me or wave if I wave back. He always makes fun of his cousin and it makes me laugh even though she’s my ...

Should I go back or move forward in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I think i may still be in love with my high teacher. For some reason its like i cant move on and go through college without feeling like something is missing. I am not the type of girl that will cry over this or be depressed i just want to go back ...

How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of ...

I need advice about my feelings for my teacher!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This is probably going to be long, so bear with me. To start with, I don't want to hear how wrong you think/know these kind of relationships are, and how they will not work out and only cause trouble. I know this already. I'm old enough and matur...

Why do guys say I'm not attractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi SO what to do! I have been told in my ols school i am really pretty and was popular and had many bf but know if we play spin the bottle no guy wants to kiss me. Ok not true they do but WHY do guys say I am not attractive? When I used to get ...

How can I learn to communicate better with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I recently started going out (i think...!) with one of my very good friends, and I guess that means things are changing (obviously and hopefully). I (surprisingly, as I'm a girl) have lots of trouble talking, like properly TALKING about fe...

I have waited for her for 2 years, but she tells me to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - She has a possessive bf of more than 3 years. She really want to break up with him but he dosent want. She told him, "how can I be in love with you if you force me to be with you?". She knows I love her and she also knows I have waited for her for ...

My cousin is in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - ok so i have this really big problem.. i came back to my country this july, and we lived in my cousins house fer a month, my cousin was 18, now 19, and im 15. age isnt rlly a problem. so after a couple of days from wehn we started living ther, he...

Can I become pregnant without intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This might seem like a silly uneducated question, but i was wondering if someone could clarify for me whether or not you can get pregnant if you didn't have sex, however, managed to get pre-ejaculate on your inner thighs or on the outside of your ...

Will our relationship last if he moves half way across the country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. We are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years. I switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our f...

It seems every time my bf and I get close, I lose all interest in him! What do I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - So...my bf is yet again out of town. Yet again I'm having some weird emotions about someone... This guy that I have known literally my entire life is in town with me. A girl that I met here somehow knows him. They have been talking to each ...

I really think he likes me but I'm not sure what he's waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've caught him staring at me in class I'll look at someone in the back where he is and he'll look in the direction I'm in When we were hanging out once he kept bumping into me and blamed it on me He's paid for my lunch and movie tickets a few ...

How does mine compare to yours? Or others you might have seen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi. i need to ask the guys on dear cupis a question. i honestly want to know how big my penis is compared to yours/ those you might have seen. currently when erect my penis is 16.5 cm or 6ish inches and when flacis its 11cm or 4 inches. so based on ...

I love my teacher and is that okay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I like my teacher, is this totally wrong? I don't expect for him to ask me on a date. I know its illegal. and its not like i want to go out with him or kiss him or anything! i sometimes blush when i talk to him and idk why! and i sometimes get kind...

My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5490 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My ex bff is doing things on purpose to make me mad or hurt my feelings. She'll stare at me, walk pass me on purpose, says hi to people that I'm with even though she doesn't really talk to them etc.. NO she is not harassing me, i just want to...