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30-35,
*3azzie
writes:I want to know what to do... my friend well "best friend" and i have been bickering back and forth for a while now over dumb things.... lately the reasons we've been fighting because every time i just break up with a guy she goes and asks him out then the net day keeps talking bout how happy she is with him and stuff like that... well itreally bothers me but wnhen ever id try to tell her shed reverse it and make me out to be the bad guy saying im meen i always yell at her and make her feel like crap. when she starts saying that i just drop it and let her say or do what ever she wants just so we stop fightinging... well a few days ago i got i tet from a friend saying y do you let her walk all over you and treat you like crap i had no answer for her, i just let it go at that time....Yesterday i didnt go to school but when my sister got home she asked if i new if my so called bffl was dating my ex bf that i still verry much have feelings for and i was like are you sure and she said yes they were holding hands... i called her and she said yes they were dating then hung up.... im verry hurt and dont think i can get over it what should i do about it?
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reader, eddy_nicolas  +, writes (18 November 2009):
i can see from a mile away that this girl is not your friend at all.it seems that she is taking advantage.every time when you break up,she is dating your ex.i dont know but if she was really your ''best friend''she should be more supportive with you!not acting like she doesnt give a damn.if i was in your shoes i'd say to her ''arrivederci''(which means bye-bye)and i wouldnt talk to her anymore.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 November 2009):
You're so called friend is in fact very jealous of you, and you would be much better without her. And let's face it, you're better off without him too. Don't bother with either of them again, and move on.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 November 2009):
You need to recognize that your so-called best friend really isn't a friend at all, and I think you know that. She does this probably because she's jealous of you, she's insecure, and she thinks everything is a competition. That's not what a friend does and she doesn't deserve to have any friends at the rate she's going.
What you need to do is stop being her friend. Guys come and go. I'm guessing you're 13 and at the oldest 15, you'll get over him. He's not the love of your life and you're not going to get married. So forget both of them. Find good friends that don't do that sort of thing. She doesn't deserve you as a friend. I'm sure that you would never do that to her, yet she does hurtful things to you--that isn't a friend.
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (5 November 2009):
 This girl is NOT your friend! She is taking advantage of your good nature to get what u want! Cut ties with her now. Sounds like this girl warning you is the better mate.
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