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Do you have to have relationships to know your sexuality?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2009)
A female Egypt age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have always considered myself as straight. I guess I didnt really think about it too much. I still had my doubts that I could be gay. Now I am having strong feeligns for a girl at school. These have lasted for a year. I have sexual and romantic feelings for her. I find hot guys arousing. But I am in love with a girl. I have not had any strong feelings for a guy before. Or even a girl.Do you have to have relationships to know your sexaulity? Im not sure about it so I would like some help figuring out my sexuality. Im really confused. And I really want to know. :)

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (5 November 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi, I saw your post and I know I'm not an expert in this area, but I wanted to let you know that I think what you're going through is common. Lots of people have had feelings like you describe. How it turns out is anyone's guess. I think the key is to be true to yourself, not to rush to judgment or hasty decisions, to learn more about yourself as you grow more mature.

I have found a link for you that may give you more information and support than I can, I think it's written for teens with questions exactly like yours: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/gaydar/the_bees_and_the_bees_a_homosexuality_and_bisexuality_primer

I hope this helps. Take care!

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