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She's on the fence, how do I get her back?

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Question - (5 November 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 30-35, *megahero09 writes:

So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and broke her during an intensely stressful weekend of school, work, and home issues coming in for a trifecta.

After that weekend for two weeks we weren't too happy. It all went downhill after that drawn out weekend. Well not, she broke up with me and it's been a couple days. Since then, I've begun to see all that I've done wrong, and all that I put her through and I would like to think that I'm changing, have changed.

She is still on the fence as to whether to take me back or not. She feels she did the right thing by breaking it off. But she also feels torn because she misses me and wants me back.

So what's the best I can do here? I still love her to death, and it's been really hard for me sure, I just need some advice or some feedback. Thanks guys, I appreciate it.

-Hero

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